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curvysue
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
0 miles · Bristol
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Sexpert
The best case I had from a single male on this site (a very well known one) was he made out that in an up & coming social that we would be there as a couple. He was speaking to 2 newbie couples and made out that I would be joining them as well as him. I was completely oblivious to this at the time, but had my suspicions when one of the couples emailed me saying they were looking forward to meeting me, even though I had never spoken to them before. For those that know me, you know I only meet single guys and don't meet couples. When later on in the social the newbie couples asked me to go back to their hotel room they had a really suprised look on their faces when I said no and that I don't play with couples.
After that incident I lost faith in guys from here and hence why I haven't been about a lot since I found out. However, the single male involved continues to carry on as if nothing ever happened and even has the cheek to give advise to newbies on teh forums. Hmm I haven't seen him give the advice yet on how to meet couples, by lying & using peeps!!!!
Sexpert
Although I may not have been at the Newcastle meet, is this a case of if someone has offended you and everyone else thinks they are OK, then keep quiet? But those who have been offended by someone keep shhhhh or be accused of stirring?
Some people on this site do offend and if you feel strongly enough then you should complain. There are bound to be people who have had a different experiences.
There seems to be a couple of peeps who are held in very high regard by some, but to be honest I have had not the best experience of. Should I keep schtum to keep the peace or should I say all to warn peeps of the potential problem as I would hope peeps would warn me. The one thing that I would say is that the single girls on this site seem to have a good relationship and talk among each other.
I have asked peeps to remove my comments from their profile as I feel that I can no longer 'endorse' them. Remove them or I will get admin to and tell them why! I think this is a reasonable request.
I know I don't come on this site very often now, but it is because some of the people that I held in such high regard & I thought I could trust have shown me a different side. I am a trusting person until someone does wrong to me, then, when the trust is broken I wish no more contact.
If you have been genuinely offended then are you not allowed to air your views? Why is it a case of shit stirring? Is it not a case of warning peeps of your experience? I appreciate feedback & always thought that this site was really good for the girls sticking together and sharing info. I used to be a regular member of this site, but got fed up of the shit stirring. I would love a site where there was no jealousy, no backstabbing and where peeps were true friends regardless of who they had sex with! There is such a rumour machine at work that its OK for idle gossip, but that can really hurt peeps.
If this site returned to the fun loving great friendship that I used to love it for, I will stay a while, if not my membership is up in June.
Sue xxx
Sexpert
How rude you are. I don't find it an ill conceived idea at all. It is my opinion, am I not entitled to it? Are you the only person entitled to to an opinion? Because any opinion you don't seem to like or explanations people give you, you seem to shoot down. You don't seem to take on board what people say, it's a case of your right and thats it or some smart arse retort so you can try and score petty points. Part of the swinging scene is having an open mind. As I've said it is about choice, do you think people should amend their choice to include single men if that is not what they are looking for??? How can you disagree with their choice, what do you know about them that makes you an expert at the age of 25!!!
Sexpert
Hi all,
I don't understand the problem. So some profiles say no single males, your's doesn't includes gay or bi men, I don't see them complaining that they are being excluded. So some couples choose not to meet single men and you choose not to meet gay/bi men. Surely the important word is choice!!!!
Get over it
Sue
Sexpert
I must say some men\'s attitudes do puzzle me as to why they are actually on this site and what they hope to get out of it.
I detest whispers and have made that very clear on my profile. So those strangers who do jump in and whisper have either ; a) not read my profile or b) read my profile and don\'t care that I don\'t like whispers and carry on regardless. Either case what do they actually expect to gain?
My favourite is those who whisper \'love your profile & pics\' - otherwise translates to - I couldn\'t be arsed reading your profile and jumped straight to the pics!!!! :doh:
Do these people seriously want to meet up with someone or do they think this is a sex on a plate website? A free for all? A couple of whispers and you\'ll get an invite round, no effort required????
Thankfully there are some genuine, down right sexy , polite men on this site, who more than make up for the idiots.
Now be nice and have fun!!!!! :rascal: :thumbup:
Sexpert
A frog goes into a bank and approaches the teller. He can see from her nameplate that her name is Patricia Whack.
\"Miss Whack, I\'d like to get a £30,000 loan to buy a car.\"
Patty looks at the frog in disbelief and asks his name. The frog says his name is Kermit Jagger, his dad is Mick Jagger, and that it\'s okay, he knows the bank manager.
Patty explains that he will need to secure the loan with some collateral.
The frog says, \"Sure. I have this,\" and produces a tiny porcelain elephant, about an inch tall, bright pink and perfectly formed.
Very confused, Patty explains that she\'ll have to consult with the bank manager and disappears into a back office.
She finds the manager and says, \"There\'s a frog called Kermit Jagger out there who claims to know you and wants to borrow £30,000, and he wants to use this as collateral.\"
She holds up the tiny pink elephant. \"I mean, what in the world is this?\"
(you\'re gonna love this)
The bank manager looks back at her and says...
\"It\'s a knickknack, Patty Whack. Give the frog a loan. His old man\'s a Rolling Stone.\"
(You\'re singing it, aren\'t you? Yeah, I know you are........)
Sexpert
Mmmm baked potato & cheese - lots better if you are happy to wait for it to be cooked in the oven.
Pasta n Sauce - really good for a quick dinner (sorry love it especially Broccoli and cheese)
Scrambled eggs on toast - another quick dinner
Meat wise: Chilli con Carne, pork chops, and being of Scottish descent - Stovies :lickface:
Sexpert
Alex Ferguson flies to Baghdad to watch a young Iraqi play football. He is suitably impressed and arranges for him to join the squad at Old Trafford.
Two weeks later Man U are 4-0 down at Chelsea with only 20 minutes left. The manager gives the young Iraqi striker the nod and on he goes. The lad is a sensation, scores 5 goals and wins the game for Man U.
The fans are delighted, the players and coaches are delighted and the media love the new star. When the player comes off the pitch, he phones his Mum to tell her about his first day in English football.
\"Hello Mum, guess what?\" he says (in an Iraqi accent). \"I played for 20 minutes today. We were 4-0 down but I scored 5 and we won. Everybody loves me, the fans, the media - they all love me.
\"Wonderful,\" says his Mum, \"Let me tell you about my day. Your father got shot in the street and robbed, your sister and I were ambushed, gang and beaten and your brother has joined a gang of looters, and all while you were having such great time.\"
The young lad is very upset, \"What can I say Mum, but I\'m so sorry.\"
\"Sorry?!!! Sorry?!!!\" says his Mum, \"It\'s your bloody fault we moved to Manchester in the first place!\"
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OMG, I can\\\'t believe you have a spell check now!! :mrgreen:
I like the changes, especially as the version that was in this morning was awful, I thought that was it!!!!
Sexpert
OK we are all entitled to our opinions and I don't expect a lot of people to agree with me. But it is my opinion, I am entitled to it & is based on my own personal experience.
I have met one or two married men from this site whose wives didn't know. This was quite a while ago & I would NEVER do it again. This site, for me, has always been about honesty and, put it this way, if you are meeting someone who is willing to commit the ultimate deceit to their nearest & dearest, don't expect them to tell you or those around you the truth!
Someone also mentioned that there is someone out there (the partner) being hurt & I would never wish that on anyone.
Doc, I don't know you at all and this is not a dig at you, but I only have my experience to go on.
Sexpert
A little boy goes to his father and asks
"Daddy, how was I born?" The father
answers: "Well son, I guess one day
you will need to find out anyway! Your
Mom and I first got together in a chat
room. Then I set up a date
via e-mail with your Mom and we met
at a cyber-cafe. We sneaked into a
secluded room, where your mother
agreed to a download from my hard
drive. As soon as I was ready to upload,
we discovered that neither one of us had
used a firewall, and since it was too late
to hit the delete button, nine months later a little Pop-Up appeared that said:
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You got Male! 
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