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cutiecarly
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 39
Straight Male, 43
0 miles · Wellingborough
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well if your looking for couples then the numbers arnt so agaisnt you lol
if you look on some other forums you will see your not the only one who doesnt get replys, and your also not the only one who isnt happy about it.
you are right it does only take a moment so say thanks but no thanks, but i for one did that and it didnt turn out well. no need for details but im sure you can guess how rude some people can be when you tell them your not interested.
just think of it this way if they dont email back, then they are not worth your time in the first place. you will find the genuie people looking for single males will reply, wether they are interested or not.
on your picture comment all i can comment on is my personal views, and i wouldnt ask for a picture as i honestly dont look twice at profiles with no pics.
anyway wish you all the luck on the site. and hope you find the fun lol many people do on this site, i promise!!
mwah xxx luv carly xxx
Post edited 08-03-2006 16:21
you dont have any pics luv, i for one wouldnt look twice at a profile with no pics. and when i say pics i dont mean 10 shots of your cock lol and also there are ways of avoiding your face being shown.
also if your on here purely looking for single women, then maybe this isnt the right type of site. im not saying there arnt single women on the scene as they are, but if you compare that with the amount of men that are looking for them then the numbers are not in your favour.
only advice i can give you is that when i was single and looking for fun, i was down the local pub or down the clubs. always a good thing to be doing as well.
good luck though, and dont give up on the site, as there are active single women who do swing. just be patient, and when in the chat room try and make friends other then comments like get your tits out. duno that might do it for some women but ive yet to meet one. lol
carly xxxx
i didn't realise that you had to phone ej? but i think that is a really good idea. would really cut out a lot of odd ones. although i have to say that maybe some new women to the site might be a little nervous about that, but hopefully then joining a swinging site, they wouldn't mind doing it.
You will never will get rid of everyone doing this they shouldn't be, like you wont stop certain people being cocks! but at the end of the day what harm is it doing to us?? (other then if they upset someone obviously) if they want to waste their money and time then leave them to it.
if a 'couple' said to me, oh the mrs is in bed, but can you get your tits out for me. my answer would be the obvious... course i will bab! pmsl im joking, i just wouldn't do it. likewise i wouldn't do anything on cam, as in private cam, with anyone that i hadn't seen. and more importantly i wouldn't meet with anyone i hadn't seen and spoken to.
at the end of the day it is a swinging site, but there are a lot of people on here for the wrong reasons. i choose to ignore them. obviously if i found someone to be who they weren't i wouldn't be shy about telling everyone.
leave the sad acts to it i say, lol its them that aren't going to get anywhere on the site!!
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
the system sometimes doesnt work. but if everyone could establish people then everyone would. and this is when the system can get abused. you would have people that havnt met establishing each other. you can always leave on his comments that you have met, and ask him to do the same for you. so when people check your profile they will know that you have both met.
hope thats useful.
carly xxx 
noooooooooooooooooo jt you have found me out!!!
i was hoping that my wig to try and be 'Carly' would work but you have caught me out!! pmsl
rich xxxxx
on a serious note though do single males posing as a couple seriously think they are going to get a meet. surely when they meet with a couple the couple will wonder where his wife is?? don't think the whole 'she's at work' will wash!! Lol
pmsl cmandcd
need some help? might cover it a little quicker!! pmsl
to be honest if i want to meet someone, and on their profile says they live 80 miles away, and it turns out they live 100 miles away im not going to have a panic attact, to be honest it doesnt bother me. if you want to meet someone then the distance or the extra 20mins in the car shouldnt really make the difference to you!
[quote user=marcgold4][quote user=cutiecarly][quote user=cmandcd][quote user=cutiecarly]dribble?????
thats giving him too much credit jt lol
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxx[/quote]
That's rich coming from someone who obsessess over gay, vegatarian, pirate lions that live in pink houses!!!
Jes, we find that just butting in helps 
welcome to the site xxx[/quote]
and this coming from (if its chris) a man who fancys my gay, vegatarian, pirate lion that lives in a pink house??
jes want some advice stay clear of cmandcd!!!! dodgie couple i tell ya!!
pmsl mwah xxx[/quote]
Hey Carly on that note you have given me an idea bout member of the month .I reckon we should have a list of peeps to avoid pmsl 
:lol: :lol: Mind you trouble with that is I would probably be at the top :cry: :cry: :cry:[/quote]
yeah you would be right there marc! pmsl
im joking
duno weta that is needed, im sure if someone was memeber of the month who didnt want to be then they would just ask admin to remove it. and also not everyone who uses the site (and votes) reads the forum, before we met cmandcd we didnt even know what it was!! lolx
:moon: :moon: :moon:
welcome to the site xxx[/quote]
and this coming from (if its chris) a man who fancys my gay, vegatarian, pirate lion that lives in a pink house??
jes want some advice stay clear of cmandcd!!!! dodgie couple i tell ya!!
pmsl mwah xxx[/quote]
Hey Carly on that note you have given me an idea bout member of the month .I reckon we should have a list of peeps to avoid pmsl :lol: :lol: Mind you trouble with that is I would probably be at the top :cry: :cry: :cry:[/quote]
yeah you would be right there marc! pmsl
im joking
duno weta that is needed, im sure if someone was memeber of the month who didnt want to be then they would just ask admin to remove it. and also not everyone who uses the site (and votes) reads the forum, before we met cmandcd we didnt even know what it was!! lolx
:moon: :moon: :moon: [quote user=marcgold4][quote user=cutiecarly][quote user=cmandcd][quote user=cutiecarly]dribble?????
thats giving him too much credit jt lol
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxx[/quote]
That's rich coming from someone who obsessess over gay, vegatarian, pirate lions that live in pink houses!!!
Jes, we find that just butting in helps welcome to the site xxx[/quote]
and this coming from (if its chris) a man who fancys my gay, vegatarian, pirate lion that lives in a pink house??
jes want some advice stay clear of cmandcd!!!! dodgie couple i tell ya!!
pmsl mwah xxx[/quote]
Hey Carly on that note you have given me an idea bout member of the month .I reckon we should have a list of peeps to avoid pmsl :lol: :lol: Mind you trouble with that is I would probably be at the top :cry: :cry: :cry:[/quote]
yeah you would be right there marc! pmsl
im joking
duno weta that is needed, im sure if someone was memeber of the month who didnt want to be then they would just ask admin to remove it. and also not everyone who uses the site (and votes) reads to forum, before we met cmandcd we didnt even know what it was!! lolx
:moon: :moon: :moon:
welcome to the site xxx[/quote]
and this coming from (if its chris) a man who fancys my gay, vegatarian, pirate lion that lives in a pink house??
jes want some advice stay clear of cmandcd!!!! dodgie couple i tell ya!!
pmsl mwah xxx[/quote]
Hey Carly on that note you have given me an idea bout member of the month .I reckon we should have a list of peeps to avoid pmsl :lol: :lol: Mind you trouble with that is I would probably be at the top :cry: :cry: :cry:[/quote]
yeah you would be right there marc! pmsl
im joking
duno weta that is needed, im sure if someone was memeber of the month who didnt want to be then they would just ask admin to remove it. and also not everyone who uses the site (and votes) reads to forum, before we met cmandcd we didnt even know what it was!! lolx
:moon: :moon: :moon: [quote user=cmandcd][quote user=cutiecarly]dribble?????
thats giving him too much credit jt lol
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxx[/quote]
That's rich coming from someone who obsessess over gay, vegatarian, pirate lions that live in pink houses!!!
Jes, we find that just butting in helps welcome to the site xxx[/quote]
and this coming from (if its chris) a man who fancys my gay, vegatarian, pirate lion that lives in a pink house??
jes want some advice stay clear of cmandcd!!!! dodgie couple i tell ya!!
pmsl mwah xxx
welcome to the site xxx[/quote]
and this coming from (if its chris) a man who fancys my gay, vegatarian, pirate lion that lives in a pink house??
jes want some advice stay clear of cmandcd!!!! dodgie couple i tell ya!!
pmsl mwah xxx Hey jes xxxx welcome to the site, and the chat room. Most people do know each other on the site, but im sure you will soon find that everyone will chat to everyone.
The things about the chat room is that it does go fast, and messages can get missed. Most couples don't mind couples whispering, I say most, so if you check in the main room before you whisper, then that just makes it easier when talking to someone as they know its you.
You will also find that the more you go into the room, the more people will recognise your name and will say hello more.
We are in there a lot, so feel free to chat to us when ever you like. Although if we are writing in red font then that means its rich, and he WILL miss your message as he isn't the best friend with computers pmsl but if its pink then its me! Lol
Mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx carly and rich xxxxxxxxx
:moon: :moon: :moon: :D
:D [/quote]
Well Carly if they do scrap it I am sure we all VOTE to have you sexy ummmmmm Face on there with those cute dimples :clap: :clap: :clap: :lol: :lol: :lol: [/quote]
although it would be really sweet marc, please dont. lol
cutiecarly is not out for the vote for member of the month. lets just say there is someone who has joined the site that i wouldnt like to know who i am lol hence why we took our face pics off. it would only bring attention to us. lol
anyway thought we were voting for bibigtits???? i have anyway lol
mwahxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
on there with those cute dimples :clap: :clap: :clap: :lol: :lol: :lol: [/quote]
although it would be really sweet marc, please dont. lol
cutiecarly is not out for the vote for member of the month. lets just say there is someone who has joined the site that i wouldnt like to know who i am lol hence why we took our face pics off. it would only bring attention to us. lol
anyway thought we were voting for bibigtits???? i have anyway lol
mwahxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx i dont think we should scrap it. i think its nice for the new memebers to see, and it is always nice when your friends are members of the month or something. all i was saying that a 'most popular' thing to me isnt what we are here for, so we wouldnt want something like that in place. but if they scraped the memeber of the month then what would go in that space, it is nice to see a pic there. i dont personally think a vote is needed to scrap anything. just my view i might be wrong, useally am! lol mwah xxx carly xxx
[quote user=cutiecarly] wouldnt want me want to meet anyone any more then if they were fun and we got along with them. [/quote]
ment to say it wouldnt make us want to meet anyone anymore then if they were fun and we got along. lol i read it through and went what?? lol
im glad chris and charlie got what i ment though.
im totally with you it isnt a popularity thing!!!
hmmm chocolate?? maybe i will get on the girliebob float then?? lol mwah xxx
being honest though i dont really care who the 'most popular' person is that month. not what we are here for. wouldnt want me want to meet anyone any more then if they were fun and we got along with them.
so i dont really see the point in the member of the month. but then again i dont mind the system they have going now. if its done on votes then who are we to argue who should be member of the month. x
thing is i know first hand that sometimes saying thank you but no thank you can get people really upset, and then you never hear the end of it.
as i have said we always reply but wouldnt be botherd if someone didnt email back, as i would know that if they didnt email back then it was obviously a no thanks.
and also i would rather someone not send anything back rather then a no thanks. but thaats just me and i do realise that everyone is dif and have dif feelings.
about the free members having other methods of replying to you regarding a no thanks. this would involve them having to use their private email and i for one know i wouldnt want to risk that to tell someone no thanks.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hey we havnt been on here for a few days so jt you would of been bitched at about my issue earlier but i wasnt here.
my issue..........
MANY OTHERS??????????????
and where was my name???? i want a list being made jt, and you beter hope im at the top otherwise im cumin to steal your hamsters!!!
lol nothing like blackmail i tell ya!
hehe mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
im very much with you two cmcd! it was a silly thing, and really isnt what this life style is about.
also to be honest i dont really mind who the memeber of the months are, yea its great when you see your close friends being member of the month, and when its people that we know. it is obvious that admin use the amounts of votes counted for the member of the month. they wouldnt have the voting in place if they didnt.
there are thousands of active members on this site, and their views count as well. and if they choose a couple to be memeber of the month who are we to complain?
also i think that if was a list of people with the most votes then the star swinger arguments would just happen again and people who were on the site at the time, it wasnt fun and i for one cannot stand people fighting. have enough of that in day to day life, dont need it in a life style that you have chosen as well.
anyway i realise i have written a little book here so i will shut it now. lol
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
first of all, im still very happy to be seeing that ass! lol come on people how nice is that bootie??
anyway lol
i do think that its a little wrong that a free member can become member of the month, even with a ass like that. but at the end of the day people have obviously voted for them otherwise they wouldnt be memeber of the month, should we not respect the people who have voted for them?? even if it is people who have not spoken up to it, people must have as they are members of the month.
regarding people with establish tags etc. people can have met other people without geting the tag, just meaning they hadnt met someone with a tag. but also i think people who are premium members shouldnt be excluded just as they havnt met the right people they would like to meet, or havnt had the chance to have met someone yet. i think they should tell be able to get member of the month as people may really like them.
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxx
p.s. bibigtits im voting for you mwah xx :clap: :clap: :moon: :doggy:
Post edited 07-02-2006 20:03
Post edited 07-02-2006 20:03 pmsl thats sooo sweet you two!!!!
yes rich lets me near the knives, but only the butter ones and what dont we do with them?
run with them!!!!!
safety first people!!!
albert wants to know why you havnt called chris?? hes a little upset that you might be trying to give him the slip? could at least let the poor bloke know!!!
pmsl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
p.s. chris isnt gay, albert = my soon to have lion!!
OH MY GOD MARMITE HAS BEEN BEATEN
i know your going to ask why, but i did wash my hands!!!
was cutting up some chillis for my parrot, the red ones, and i must had left some on my finger after wash my hands, as i washed them on purpose as i knew it would hurt and still i got some in my eye!
i thought marmite and man juice was bad. but they have to step down for chiilis!!!!
lol mwah xx :moon:
