[color="cyan"]Hi sexy peeps,
As you all know we have had a spot of bother with organising a club meet at Utopia. Unfortunately, the majority of people were unable to make the date change to a week later and I've had to make a decision on behalf of the majority of people who wanted to attend.
Sooooo, with this in mind, I have decided to keep to the original date of 3rd October, and to take the meet to Chameleons Swingers Club in Darlaston, West Midlands.
I will, once again be mailing everyone who has expressed an interest in the meet today, with further details of venue and hotel details.
Mrs Ceylon :love:[/color]
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:thumbup:Sorry Clare hun better late than never, we were on holiday when you dropped him lol.
Have spoken already but just to add on here, we are over the moon for you and what a great name you chose, couldn't have chosen a better name for a boy ourselves ;). Great minds huh.
See you at Utopia the caves are dark, they won't even know he's there. Just bring the flashy lights thing, we can hide it under our towels, everyone will think we have neon flashing nips lol.
Speak to you soon lovely.
Ceylons mwahxxxxxxxxxxxx :love:
Some friends of ours are going to the one in Jamaica in April for their 10th Wedding Anni MWM, will ask them what it's like and let you know.
Although, have to say have seen some documenteries on the TV and if they really are like what they portray on the TV all shagging anything that moves then no it wouldn't be our cuppa lol.
mwahxxxxxxx ceylons :love:
She is the nicest, sweetest, kindest, non judgemental, non patronising, intelligent women that we have ever had the pleasure of getting to know. Oh and she happens to be incredibly sexy too. Anyone who takes the time to get to know her will always know whats she's on about and will reap the benefits.
mwahxxxxx Miss Diva see you in a few weeks xxxxxxxxxx
[quote user=spartacus69]if success is based on being patient, having a sense of humour and above all nice .......then i'm fooked!!!!
damn i knew i was doing something wrong.:doh:..right it's off to the brothel then
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patience is a virtue you know sparts :grin:. It pays out dividends in the end ;)
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patience is a virtue you know sparts :grin:. It pays out dividends in the end ;) Too right mwm, have no idea why Admin thought to change the profiles so we couldn't see who was free or paid up. Think people have asked for it to be changed back before now but never get a reply from Admin.
So yes... Admin may we have it back the way it was please, think everyone will agree it's not fair for the fully paid up members to be mailing people who aren't really serious about the swing. :thumbup:
[quote user=mwm69]So.....the ancient art of flirting.....?[/quote]
How To Flirt
Realize, first, that flirting has both verbal and non verbal components. The verbal part is easiest to learn. You just have to know the right things to say - and the wrong ones as well. For example, men flirting will often try out goofy memorized lines. The wrong thing to say:
"Is this heaven, or did you just fall down to earth?"
Not really as clever as you think! Now, the right thing to say as an opener:
"I saw you standing here alone and I thought, how wrong is that? Can I buy you a drink?"
Not clever, but flattering and lets her know exactly what your intentions are. You aren't trying to be smooth with some line you memorized; instead, you are being sincere and open. You're flirting, and you're not pretending to be someone else.
So forget all the stupid books with the stupid lines - except as something to laugh at when you're flirting with women. They do make excellent topics for ridicule.
Now here's the problem. You have a great opening line to begin to flirt with that girl over next to the bar, but you don't know whether she'll be accepting of you, or throw her drink in your face. You have a quandary.
Don't agonize over it. Instead, learn how body language in flirting works. Most men don't realize until it's too late that it's the woman who selects them; her body cues and other subtle physical signals tell him when it's okay to approach her (yes, we're all on Animal Planet!) When you learn the art of flirting, you'll learn how those subtle signals women give off work, and how you can send back your own signals of interested or not interested.
Stop beating your head on the proverbial brick wall, and learn how to flirt with your whole body. When your flirting technique has been honed to a fine edge, you'll find those trips to the local meat-market bar have transformed from agony to ecstacy.
any good, or a load of cobblers? lol
