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Welll thank you for the last 2 comments, which I think answer a lot of points. :clap: :clap: To re-iterate my own position on this site as opposed to the married and cheating sites....... I enjoy the chat that I can have here with people, which has not been overly sexual but good honest adult fun with quite a lot of serious discussion on a variety of topics. I hope I have been able to help and support some members as well 
As to trying to get meets I have never pressured anyone, as couples that I have been in contact with can verify, nor have I ever been rude or abusive.... if ever I have been picked up for something by a moderator I have apologised immediately :red:
I'm not sure what kaynie and jed want from me, and I do feel that I have been picked on a little but,as sudsy pointed out, I expected something like this to occur. As long as it helps others then that's fine, but don't make it personal please 8) There are a large number of members I suspect that are here without their partner's knowledge and have a very active sex life. You can never tell who is being honest, and I wonder if some really care despite all the talk of morals. Oh, and I don't like the inference to paedophiles and myself :fury: if I had my way they would be stoned to death or burned at the stake :mad: as they are not fit to breathe the same air as the rest of us. There is NO excuse for their behaviour and, if their is a :devil: I'm sure he will accept them with open arms into the after life! :mad:
Yes I did join to try and meet people in an effort to fill in the gap in my own sex life: it is not easy talking about something like this with a partner and getting their permission 
. My wife and I have discussed our relationship and she remains adamant that she will not do anything she does not want to. Am I supposed to just roll over like a submissive dog and accept that kaynie? :-? I wonder if you would .... I suspect not judging from your current swinging life style: what if jed turned round and said he was not happy with you being free to go with whom you please whenever you please, especially women?
In support of kaynie and jed I think they just want to express their own opinion, and some of this will be shared by others if not all of it: at least they have voiced themselves and all credit for doing so.
Live and let live within reason , as long as nobody gets hurt and nobody is made to :cry: I enjoy having adult debate and discussions: it does make a change from banal chit chat don't you agree?
On a lighter note my wife made a joke about being due on her period when we are away on holiday: I made a coment that her vagina was probably getting tighter due to lack of use, a condition termed 'atrophy', which happens with old age.. I then jokingly said I had a beautiful wife with a gorgeous figure with the c..t of a 90 year old! Surprisingly we both burst out laughing!
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Post edited 05-08-2007 11:52
As to trying to get meets I have never pressured anyone, as couples that I have been in contact with can verify, nor have I ever been rude or abusive.... if ever I have been picked up for something by a moderator I have apologised immediately :red:
I'm not sure what kaynie and jed want from me, and I do feel that I have been picked on a little but,as sudsy pointed out, I expected something like this to occur. As long as it helps others then that's fine, but don't make it personal please 8) There are a large number of members I suspect that are here without their partner's knowledge and have a very active sex life. You can never tell who is being honest, and I wonder if some really care despite all the talk of morals. Oh, and I don't like the inference to paedophiles and myself :fury: if I had my way they would be stoned to death or burned at the stake :mad: as they are not fit to breathe the same air as the rest of us. There is NO excuse for their behaviour and, if their is a :devil: I'm sure he will accept them with open arms into the after life! :mad:
Yes I did join to try and meet people in an effort to fill in the gap in my own sex life: it is not easy talking about something like this with a partner and getting their permission . My wife and I have discussed our relationship and she remains adamant that she will not do anything she does not want to. Am I supposed to just roll over like a submissive dog and accept that kaynie? :-? I wonder if you would .... I suspect not judging from your current swinging life style: what if jed turned round and said he was not happy with you being free to go with whom you please whenever you please, especially women?
In support of kaynie and jed I think they just want to express their own opinion, and some of this will be shared by others if not all of it: at least they have voiced themselves and all credit for doing so.
Live and let live within reason , as long as nobody gets hurt and nobody is made to :cry: I enjoy having adult debate and discussions: it does make a change from banal chit chat don't you agree?
On a lighter note my wife made a joke about being due on her period when we are away on holiday: I made a coment that her vagina was probably getting tighter due to lack of use, a condition termed 'atrophy', which happens with old age.. I then jokingly said I had a beautiful wife with a gorgeous figure with the c..t of a 90 year old! Surprisingly we both burst out laughing!
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Post edited 05-08-2007 11:52 [quote user=ur4it][quote user=ceylon1]can feel it's close now![/quote]
The mods have been testing sp v2 for a couple of weeks now (and learning how to use some of the new features). In my opinion, there are some nice new features in there but the developers have remained faithful to the "look and feel" of the present site.
I have to say that it looks pretty good and the development guys deserve a round of applause (if not lots of alcoholic beverages! 
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im still here mods please dont forget to keep me up to date !!!! looking forward to the new room.
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im still here mods please dont forget to keep me up to date !!!! looking forward to the new room. Break a bit of ice on the bar and say "Now I've broken the ice can I buy you a drink?"
Are you wearing spacepants, because your behind is totally out of this world!
Excuse me, do you have any raisins? How about a date?
It's your lucky day - my girlfriend dumped me last night, so I'm back on the singles market.
I like your legs so much Im going to name one Christmas and one New Years. Hey, can I see you between the holidays?
If you partner, husband or wife is not interested in sex or cant preform for any reason and then gives the other person permission to find that else where it not cheating because the other half has given there consent to have sex with other people. Yes there is married people or people that have a partner that doesn't know that they are a member and take part in swinging activities then they are cheating on there other half. The thing with swinging sites is that people can have adult fun without the complications of a emotionly getting involved with someone else.
We have seen plenty of couple break up due to the swinging scene, and not all have been single. But to join and have sex with other people then there own relationship has to be strong. There is people when something is missing in there relationship turn to swinging to try and fix the problem, like others (non swingers) have children to try and fix it, as we all know this wont work. It is so important to have personnel rules and never break them, and to talk to each other. Without these then it wont work in the swinging scene.
You all must understand that people are on here for there own reasons. Some are here just to chat and go to socials, some just want sex, and some want to make friends and enjoy adult fun. What ever reason why someone is on here is there business, and i dont believe its up for discussion.
We welcome anyone to the site regardless there marital status and there reasons. We are all here to have fun, so come on everyone Docmartin only ask a question and there is people out there will understand his position and be happy to accomodate him.
You do find out through the chat who is cheating on there other halfs and people will stay away, but when you have there permission there here just like any other single person.
It would appear I opened a can of worms :O
I don't know about the sites you've mentioned, but you seem to know a lot about them. Maybe I AM on the wrong site through my ignorance. :-o
Still I have not pressurised anyone nor been offencive; I believed I would find what I was looking for on this site, unfortunately I may be wrong - but I love a challenge and enjoy chatting so I'll stay for now if that's OK.
So whatever your opinion thank you for giving me (and others I suspect) some good feed-back. I sincerely hope non of you have been mislead or lied to by single peeps you have met -- but there is always that very real possibility.
One observation I will make is that swingers are probably safer and more discreet than the marriage cheating sites. People in open relationships are more likelyto be careful about who they play with, which is one of my reasons for being here.
hi everybody i joined just today and enjoying the site very much and realise that theres a very fine line between turning people on and turning people bicurious and would like to meet bi couples or you wouldnt mind even if your not interested in meeting could you message me with some tips and hints to help me get together with others and not just piss people off. thanks im looking forward to hearing from you soon.
mmmmm i seem to have missed the point ?
lolol
and as choise is upper most here can i chose a spank for not listening to the forum ?
dam it got me nail stuck in mt stockings so i can remove my pants for me spnk ,
bugger. :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon:
but yes seriously its choice and tolerance xxxxx
ohhhh this is getting HOT.. i think we should live and let live..every one is different and everyone has there idea of what is right and wrong...
its all about
AWARENESS- notice what is happening
CHOICE- there is always an option, choose carefully
DECISION-decide what you want
ACTION-nothing happens without action
mwah MO_XX
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forgive me but swinging is not all about sex and shagging. i respect as im sure we all do my bed buddy (yes im bi) but im picking up the vibe that married peeps arnt welcome ? i do hope not as a fair few of the members here would have to go.
so in short i play because i enjoy being relaxed and when im with "swingers" i have nothing to proove hide or any thing .
gggeeezzz i ebven wore a mini dress to mk some thing id no way do in vanilla life...
we have been married for 18 years very happily to. my hubs has MND and is turminally ill. this has its obviouse problems . i enjoy being physicall close to a man nothing like a hug im not so intrested in a shag for shags sake nor am i looking for a new husband rathe a freind that is understanding and able to help me mentaly through this awfull time.
my husband knows i see folk hes happy if im safe and happy.
SINGHLE MEN ARE FAB THE ONES IV TAKEN THE TIME TO BE BOTHERD TO GET TO KNOW. wernt husbands not single males b4 we married them?????
ok my two pence worth i feel.
brill thread not the usual thanks xxxx
right time for me to tell my story as to why im here .
hold on... good god i have mail......flipping heck. thought id been forgotten lol brb oo its like christmass ... bet its robbie w again god man leave me alone pleaseees
A survey was conducted with a thousand men to try and establish why men like blow jobs so much.
5% said that they like the feel of their cock in a womans moist mouth
20% said that they like the domination they have over their woman
and 75% said that they like the 5 minutes of peace and quiet.
Strong views.....but I have to disagree about using the websites you recommend. Perhaps what I'm looking for is not available in them, I might just enjoy watching a couple or group rather than just wanting to cheat on my partner.
Why do you feel that people such as myself bring swingers into disrepute? Everyone has choices in life and how they live their lives, spend their money, etc. Not all on this site are the same as yourselves and have the same opinion I'm pleased to say.
WOW
Many thanks for that Mo :clap: You have done more than you imagine, as you have been very explicit in explaining what we are here for, and pointed out that that some may have been with a married/attached person without thier knowledge.
Thank you for your suportive comments and I'm happy you all can see I'm genuine enough - perhaps peeps will be more understanding now at least.
I have also received email from peeps that don't want to post in the forum for several reasons. Again these have been supportive and enlightening, so thank you for those.
This is a debate that could go on and on. At least it is an area where choice is the key factor; you cna choose to have a meet with someone in a relationship or not - but please don't rush to judge them. If you find out they have lied AFTER a meet it is up to you how to deal with that. As I've advocated strongly in my posts, honesty IS the best policy.
I'll continue chatting in the room with you all as I actually do enjoy being there and the banter that goes on. The cam shows are also very entertaining :devil: :clap:
Meet you there
Many thanks for that Mo :clap: You have done more than you imagine, as you have been very explicit in explaining what we are here for, and pointed out that that some may have been with a married/attached person without thier knowledge.
Thank you for your suportive comments and I'm happy you all can see I'm genuine enough - perhaps peeps will be more understanding now at least.
I have also received email from peeps that don't want to post in the forum for several reasons. Again these have been supportive and enlightening, so thank you for those.
This is a debate that could go on and on. At least it is an area where choice is the key factor; you cna choose to have a meet with someone in a relationship or not - but please don't rush to judge them. If you find out they have lied AFTER a meet it is up to you how to deal with that. As I've advocated strongly in my posts, honesty IS the best policy.
I'll continue chatting in the room with you all as I actually do enjoy being there and the banter that goes on. The cam shows are also very entertaining :devil: :clap:
Meet you there 