Right time to finish this thread as far as I'm concerned.
You have given me enough feed back to realise I am not doing the right thing so far as most are concerned: but I havn't actually had any meets so have not been cheating.... unless you think just being a member of this site constitutes as much :-?
I have asked for meets but been declined either because those peeps feel as you do or I'm too old or just not what thwy want. In any event I will try to attend socials for what they are - the opportunity to meet people :clap:
If anyone wanted to take things any further it would depend on several things as well: I'm not after a fast shag with any female. There would still have to be that certain chemistry and attraction.
So I have taken on board all your opinions and views: I think it is something I should discuss with my wife and see what transpires. Perhaps she will be understanding, perhaps not.....we will have to see. 8)
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NO NO NO NO NO DOC , you have miss read what i wrote, go back and read it all again lol... what i said right at the begin is what i ment,
I DONT have any prob's with you being here or doing what your doing, Im not saying its something i would do, or even think about playing with a married man, as i have MR MO who im more than happy with, and as most of you know im here for the chat only.
but what im trying or have been trying to say, is you have your reasons for doing what you are and im fine with that..
God im not going to post anything on this bit again its all getting to muddled for me lol...
mwah
Have fun doc xxx
Right, I was going to post this..... but Kate is impatient!!!
For those that know me..... we always try and do our parties on a sunday at chameleons because tis such a chilled day.
There's loads going so far, always a total hoot and Kate and Pete are lovely.. you wil recognise Kate cus every time I walk past her, she grabs my tits!
So, if your new, unsure or just not a clubber....e along, you will have a great time ..... We promise
hi there i am a new member to this site and i am having a party at chameleons the swingers club so i can meet new ppl i know a few members off this site and they are all good fun, i hope ppl can come as would love to meet new ppl and just to have a laugh socialy as well if any desire to go off and play then you will be in the right place lol. hope ppl can come its being held on sunday 26th auagust. thanks see you all soon kate
well im a bi fem gen and have all the pics etc requierd. its absalutly fine to be pickie ...may be the other girl is to. may be she is gen and once she gets natting thinks your not her cup of char , a remote poss but a poss all the same. im also pickie wich is why i pick friends that take me as i am and not judge me on my looks.
but i do hear your point, i can onoy speak for my self here and say that id not speek to another girl like that ger em out flash the gash et us girkls just dont do that ......well...gerrrrrr em ooot gals.
I get the feeling that is the general consensus of opinion, and I respect that :clap:
[B]It is and never was my intention to try and trick peeps: if it were I would never have posted this thread.[/B] However I hope it has made members realise that there are peeps posting themselves as singles (or even couples) that are not being honest and some of you may well have been duped into having meets. These may even have proved very enjoyable and you have no regrets..... but would you feel hurt and upset by the fact that these peeps were not being honest, or would you no longer care after the event took place?
I understand the fact that many couples have a bi female, and that this is why there are so few looking for single males. As I've said before in the chat room I understand women getting pleasure form other women but not men ( and no I'm not homophobic 
) Why? well simply because women are so much harder to please: us men know what we want and reach our goal relatively fast. Whereas women like to take time and savour the pleasure and enjoyment: they also have the ability to have more than one orgasm 
[B]I hope some of the 'pretenders' have taken note of what's been said on this thread and reconsider their position in terms of honesty and being up front about themselves.[/B] I am not looking for an affair, just sexual satisfaction without any committments. I do not wish to turn to a prostitute due to all the diseases that are more probable to prevail in that area, nor do I wish to pay lots of money for a quickie that I would personally find totally unsatisfactory - just as easy to have a :wank: even if it does not feel the same :cry:
We all need sexual love and affection, it is far more human to do it with like-minded peeps than having to pay a professional.
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[B]It is and never was my intention to try and trick peeps: if it were I would never have posted this thread.[/B] However I hope it has made members realise that there are peeps posting themselves as singles (or even couples) that are not being honest and some of you may well have been duped into having meets. These may even have proved very enjoyable and you have no regrets..... but would you feel hurt and upset by the fact that these peeps were not being honest, or would you no longer care after the event took place?
I understand the fact that many couples have a bi female, and that this is why there are so few looking for single males. As I've said before in the chat room I understand women getting pleasure form other women but not men ( and no I'm not homophobic ) Why? well simply because women are so much harder to please: us men know what we want and reach our goal relatively fast. Whereas women like to take time and savour the pleasure and enjoyment: they also have the ability to have more than one orgasm
[B]I hope some of the 'pretenders' have taken note of what's been said on this thread and reconsider their position in terms of honesty and being up front about themselves.[/B] I am not looking for an affair, just sexual satisfaction without any committments. I do not wish to turn to a prostitute due to all the diseases that are more probable to prevail in that area, nor do I wish to pay lots of money for a quickie that I would personally find totally unsatisfactory - just as easy to have a :wank: even if it does not feel the same :cry:
We all need sexual love and affection, it is far more human to do it with like-minded peeps than having to pay a professional.
Post edited 07-08-2007 11:45 Well I'm a little confused Mo, as I was under the impression you were [B]NOT [/B]against people like myself using the site yet here you say you don't think we should be here. :-? As for the bit about paedophiles, consent, etc. then I'm right behind you :clap: :clap: (not :doggy: tho I wish I could )
I've at least found a release for some of my sexual frustration by being on this site. Although I have not had any success in 'cheating'(
eye:
)on my partner I have enjoyed here for the fun and the opportunity to have some sexual banter on line which harms nobody . The cams are great and it's wonderful that some peeps like to put on a show for the rest of the room as well. I also think that the ability to have your own 'private' chat room isgreat and allows those who wish to be more intimate yet private can do so without offending others.
There is something for everyone, and, provided peeps are honest from the start, there is always a chance they will find what they are looking for.
[B]I'm glad you have enjoyed this debate and have all been honest in your opinions. I'm quite content to continue as I am as I do not feel I am any threat to any of you, nor do I beleive I should not be here.... as you say 'live and let live' provided it's consentual and nobody is getting hurt [/B]
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I've at least found a release for some of my sexual frustration by being on this site. Although I have not had any success in 'cheating'(eye: )on my partner I have enjoyed here for the fun and the opportunity to have some sexual banter on line which harms nobody . The cams are great and it's wonderful that some peeps like to put on a show for the rest of the room as well. I also think that the ability to have your own 'private' chat room isgreat and allows those who wish to be more intimate yet private can do so without offending others.
There is something for everyone, and, provided peeps are honest from the start, there is always a chance they will find what they are looking for.
[B]I'm glad you have enjoyed this debate and have all been honest in your opinions. I'm quite content to continue as I am as I do not feel I am any threat to any of you, nor do I beleive I should not be here.... as you say 'live and let live' provided it's consentual and nobody is getting hurt [/B]
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Post edited 07-08-2007 10:13 If I followed you home, would you keep me?
If you were a tear in my eye I would not cry for fear of losing you.
Wouldn't we look cute on a wedding cake together?
Your name must be Mickey because your so fine. (only people over 25 would probably get this one )
Ouch! My tooth hurts! (Why?) Because you are soooo sweet!
See this pin? I want to prick you with it to see if you truly do bleed sunshine.
My lips are skittles, wanna taste the rainbow?
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Ouch! My tooth hurts! (Why?) Because you are soooo sweet!
See this pin? I want to prick you with it to see if you truly do bleed sunshine.
My lips are skittles, wanna taste the rainbow?
Post edited 06-08-2007 23:06 Hi, its my 26th birthday next week and i am looking to see it in with a good ol' privates party. I'm a new member here so thought this could be a good way of meeting peeps. I'm looking for couples and single fems to meet around the guildford area for i nite of fun and frollics. No date set as yet as i am just guaging interest. If you are interested then please reply on thid thread with what day/ evenings you are free. many thanks and i look forward to meeting some of you. Martin
[quote user=truescorpio][quote user=kcmanc]You have a lovely idealistic way about you tho true bet your a librian lolxx Kc xx[/quote]
Its because I am blessed with the spirit and impetuousness of youth! Such a shame people forget that being young is'nt just about sexual inexperience, its also about seeing the world as a big juicy apple ready to be bitten.
Or maybe I'm just being idealistic? [/quote]!
I'M A GRANNY SMITH . BITE ME BITE ME!
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I'M A GRANNY SMITH . BITE ME BITE ME! Well this has been a good debate, and some very strong views people have, thats what makes us ALL such interesting people.
I would like to say.. when I say "live and let live" i mean if Im not being hurt or my family and friends then let others do what they feel is right for them,when paeodophile was mentioned i feel that is a totally different thing, that is a very ill individual where one person, child which ever the case maybe has not given there consent. I have very strong views on this subject which would take forever to chat about, and not on a forum.
what Doc has been saying hes looking for and wanting to do, would be all consenting people, its a totally different thing.
Kaynie SAID ..the question is should people who are cheating on their partners be welcomed into the swinging scene, I think not, swingers have enough bigots to contend with without leaving ourselves open to the "it breaks up marriages" and "you steel husbands and wives".
Kaynie.. i am a little confused to what u have said here, as you say later on that u have nothing against Doc being here and you always talk to him.. yet i this bit above you are saying they shouldn't be welcomed in to the swing world...
I would be interested to know what you think to people who don't swing but have joined the site... do you feel they shouldn't be here as well?
MWAHH
MO_ XX
Myself and miss cc are coming all the way down from scotland for the leeds meet and are staying both the friday nite and saturday nite. So if anyone else is there Friday too get in touch with either of us and we will arrange to meet up and go for a drink , something to eat and a good gossip.
A chance to have a chat b4 the Saturday as its impossible to talk to everyone then.
Sue xxxxx
hi there we r having a amall get together at out house on sat the 1st september we have 2 cpls booked in all ready and we r looking 4 4 more cpls or 1 of them oh u noo oh ye thats it single females lol 2 join us please get in touch and we will get back 2 us there is a hotel opposite our appartment we can let u have details off chat soon xxxsteve and deb
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