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Hmmm we have them all, fems, who are cpls, males who are cpls, cpls who are singles, singles fems who are male singles 
Also if you need to change ur states from what ever due to what ever reason it cost's each time. so some will keep it but say something in there profile..
Unlike me Im single on here i paid to change it, but i do say in my profile im almost married and not single, but most regs know this and know my partner...
Mwah Mo_xx
Also if you need to change ur states from what ever due to what ever reason it cost's each time. so some will keep it but say something in there profile..
Unlike me Im single on here i paid to change it, but i do say in my profile im almost married and not single, but most regs know this and know my partner...
Mwah Mo_xx Hello Doc, and thank you for the very long reply to my mail box
Ok this might be long and a little mixed up as i have mixed view's.. all tho i Never judge ANYONE we all have our reasons for doing things in our lives that others will agree or disagree what makes us all great and different in our own ways. wouldn't life be boring if we all agreed and did the same things.
Ok 1st you Have been honest and told everyone on the site about your situation, that deserves respect," you could have just lied" most do. None of us really know if someone is un married or not, how can we, well unless we become private detectives and stake out a persons for tho's who do meet single guys u may well have met or played with a married man already. at least this one is honest to you all and up front.
Doc i would say there is a mixed bunch on the site, there are cpls out there who want to meet single guys either for there wives to play with, or for there hubby to watch there wives with another guy, or even for the cpl to be just watched and poss be filmed etc.
There are also single lady's out there who would be happy to meet " once they know you and feel safe" or even 2 fems who would like a single guy to play with.
Or if the single guy has a bi side then there are bi cpls mf and mm..
I would say all these are here on the sp site, it just takes time and chat to find them. Or a social event to come face to face with them.
Cpls who have a bi lady and a str guy are almost 99% looking for another cpl or a single bi fem... like lots have said every one gets something from that .. and lets be honest everyone wants something.
Doc Your own situation is your own business and for no one else to judge as none of us know the ins and outs, there are always 2 feel you are missing something from your wife and so looking else where " hence u being on this site" whether we are single or a cpl we are all here cos were looking for something else.
All you cpls out there have something very special being able to love your partner enough to allow them to have sex with someone else while being apart of it, thats special.
Doc says he loves his wife very much and couldn't leave her, thats special too, hes just missing the special sex side of it, at least hes not having an affair, swinging is just a nice way to have sex with others.
As long as your honest with people on here which u have been, then its for them to decide if they play with you or not, but not for them to judge you because your married.
They have a choice to say thank you but no thanks.
you will find ones that will say thanks and not mind what your back ground is, stay with it doc, so far every true swinger i have met has been a polite one.
Did that make any sense
Mwah
Mo_ xx
Ok this might be long and a little mixed up as i have mixed view's.. all tho i Never judge ANYONE we all have our reasons for doing things in our lives that others will agree or disagree what makes us all great and different in our own ways. wouldn't life be boring if we all agreed and did the same things.
Ok 1st you Have been honest and told everyone on the site about your situation, that deserves respect," you could have just lied" most do. None of us really know if someone is un married or not, how can we, well unless we become private detectives and stake out a persons for tho's who do meet single guys u may well have met or played with a married man already. at least this one is honest to you all and up front.
Doc i would say there is a mixed bunch on the site, there are cpls out there who want to meet single guys either for there wives to play with, or for there hubby to watch there wives with another guy, or even for the cpl to be just watched and poss be filmed etc.
There are also single lady's out there who would be happy to meet " once they know you and feel safe" or even 2 fems who would like a single guy to play with.
Or if the single guy has a bi side then there are bi cpls mf and mm..
I would say all these are here on the sp site, it just takes time and chat to find them. Or a social event to come face to face with them.
Cpls who have a bi lady and a str guy are almost 99% looking for another cpl or a single bi fem... like lots have said every one gets something from that .. and lets be honest everyone wants something.
Doc Your own situation is your own business and for no one else to judge as none of us know the ins and outs, there are always 2 feel you are missing something from your wife and so looking else where " hence u being on this site" whether we are single or a cpl we are all here cos were looking for something else.
All you cpls out there have something very special being able to love your partner enough to allow them to have sex with someone else while being apart of it, thats special.
Doc says he loves his wife very much and couldn't leave her, thats special too, hes just missing the special sex side of it, at least hes not having an affair, swinging is just a nice way to have sex with others.
As long as your honest with people on here which u have been, then its for them to decide if they play with you or not, but not for them to judge you because your married.
They have a choice to say thank you but no thanks.
you will find ones that will say thanks and not mind what your back ground is, stay with it doc, so far every true swinger i have met has been a polite one.
Did that make any sense
Mwah
Mo_ xx Yes there is enjoyment in that you are right, we have met some great single guys and will continue to do so, but there is nothing quite like being with another woman with my husband.
For us yes that does include single females, We would not meet [B]anyone[/B] that had a partner, whether the partner knows about it or not, As you say, the situation could easily be cheated.
Thanks to everyone that has posted comments :clap:. I'll try and clarify a coupleof points.
Mindy: I appreciate what you say and understand that. Perhaps it is the male partner that enjoys watching the lady with another woman, but it could also be the male watching her with another male - hence the enjoyment.8)
Mo_ : I have sent you a personal message but not placed it on here as it is rather long 
I take the point made by several that they do not meet guys in a relationship, but does that also apply to single females? :-? And how can yoiu tell for definate whether someone is being honest? A friend could easily pose as the other partner if proof was asked for, or am I being too cynical?
Hence the comment about dual standards 
I am not out to hurt anyone,including myself, nor to find a new relationship. As I've said I love my wife but sometimes we have to do things covertly if we want to keep a relationship together. Governments do it to us all the time in order to protect us - what we don't know cannot hurt us as they say.
Keep the posts coming, it's a good debate I think.
I take the point made by several that they do not meet guys in a relationship, but does that also apply to single females? :-? And how can yoiu tell for definate whether someone is being honest? A friend could easily pose as the other partner if proof was asked for, or am I being too cynical?
Hence the comment about dual standards
I am not out to hurt anyone,including myself, nor to find a new relationship. As I've said I love my wife but sometimes we have to do things covertly if we want to keep a relationship together. Governments do it to us all the time in order to protect us - what we don't know cannot hurt us as they say.
Keep the posts coming, it's a good debate I think. Hello Doc,
well as a single fem on here with a partner at home i had to read and have my say on this.
1st i need to know if your wife knows u belong to this site and is happy for you to meet others for sexual fun. depending on this answer will depend on what i say...
but remember your profile starts of with
" HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY "
I'll wait for Your answer till i say more..
mwah
MO_XX
HI guys,
Welcome to the site, have a go in the chatroom, when you enter say hello and that you are newbies. You will get people saying hello back. The chatroom can seem a bit heptic at some times in the day, but you guys will soon pick it up more you spend in there. Have a look in the new and nervous section, cos at the top is a tread called chatroom tips for newbies, there is a lot of good useful info in there to help you on your way. If you have any question even if they seem daft, just ask cos we all were new at first. If you notice a yellow star next to anyones name in the chatroom, these are site moderators or mods for short. They will help you out with anything so dont be frightened to ask.
Hope this has helped you, and see you guys in the chatroom.
Well said by Lolly and Mindy. Its not our cup of tea either to meet single males regardless whether they are in a relationship or not, and if we every do decide to meet a single male then we would pick one that we have got to know (and there are them out there), and doesn't abuse people in the chatroom, either by words or trying to get people to do things on cam for them.
What i can say is that i've spoken many times with Doc, and he comes across as a genuine guy who respects others in the chatroom and never ask's anyone to preform for him when they are on cam. You are certainly one of the good guys Doc and i hope that you find someone soon.
As a personal preference we would not meet anyone who was in a relationship but swinging on there own, we have nothing against anyone that does, It's your life.
We meet Bi Females for the fact that as a couple we both get pleasure out of it, it has nothing to do with the female only doing it for the male. Whereas if we were to meet a single male only where is the pleasure for the male half?
Not had any meets yet george but know what you mean :cry:
We have met in chat room on occassion and it was a pleasure being there with you ; not all us single blokes are bad but get hammered for the ones that are mate.
Take care and perhaps you'll come back soon even if just for the friendly banter :clap:
well done doc for saying something sensible :clap:
we joined as a couple cos fortunately we both have a high sex drive :devil:
we dont advertise that we want a single man to join us for the following reasons:
there are so many single men on site that we would be reading messages til midnight every night
certain single men on this site behave badly towards women and couples in the chat room - im sure you have seen this doc, they give the decent single men a bad name.
we were wary of single men who then said they were married when we first joined the site - but having met a few already and now that their reasons are genuine.
I think its about getting yourself known on the site and trying to go to big site meets - im sure doc that once people get to know you in person then they will view your reasons for being on here as we do.
good luck in finding the right couple or single fem for you
we dont advertise that we want a single man to join us for the following reasons:
there are so many single men on site that we would be reading messages til midnight every night
certain single men on this site behave badly towards women and couples in the chat room - im sure you have seen this doc, they give the decent single men a bad name.
we were wary of single men who then said they were married when we first joined the site - but having met a few already and now that their reasons are genuine.
I think its about getting yourself known on the site and trying to go to big site meets - im sure doc that once people get to know you in person then they will view your reasons for being on here as we do.
good luck in finding the right couple or single fem for you Hi everyone,
I just wanted to do a bit of research really, and hope you will help .
If you check my profile you will see that I have tried to be honest and explain why I am a member of this site. I gather that I am not the only person that is in a relationship where one partner has a much higher sex drive than the other (women included in this by the way - it's not all about men 
): this can cause a lot of disharmony and friction but both partners love each other to much to seperate. My wife has a very low sex drive and is not prepared to make any change: she wants to have her cake all to herself without sharing, keeping it under the cover until she feels like she wants a bite - and I'm expected to be happy with this, which I'm not but love her too much to leave. :cry:
I want to know if women are against meets with single guys like myself, and why when there is a legitimate reason for people joining the site for that reason. Please don't say 'visit a prostitute' as that's so lacking in understanding 
I sometimes feel there are dual standards at work: why is it there are so many people looking only for bi girls and bi guys , especially couples, yet very few are interested in single, older guys :-? It's like it's OK if the man wants more fun but not necessarily the woman if you get my drift. Do women join just to please their partner?
Perhaps you will be kind enough to give your opinion, and please keep it nice - I'm trying to get some real feed-back on this to help myself and others.
Thanks :clap: [B]
Post edited 02-08-2007 12:17
If you check my profile you will see that I have tried to be honest and explain why I am a member of this site. I gather that I am not the only person that is in a relationship where one partner has a much higher sex drive than the other (women included in this by the way - it's not all about men ): this can cause a lot of disharmony and friction but both partners love each other to much to seperate. My wife has a very low sex drive and is not prepared to make any change: she wants to have her cake all to herself without sharing, keeping it under the cover until she feels like she wants a bite - and I'm expected to be happy with this, which I'm not but love her too much to leave. :cry:
I want to know if women are against meets with single guys like myself, and why when there is a legitimate reason for people joining the site for that reason. Please don't say 'visit a prostitute' as that's so lacking in understanding
I sometimes feel there are dual standards at work: why is it there are so many people looking only for bi girls and bi guys , especially couples, yet very few are interested in single, older guys :-? It's like it's OK if the man wants more fun but not necessarily the woman if you get my drift. Do women join just to please their partner?
Perhaps you will be kind enough to give your opinion, and please keep it nice - I'm trying to get some real feed-back on this to help myself and others.
Thanks :clap: [B]
Post edited 02-08-2007 12:17 