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[color="darkred"]Can admin note on my part i never want to be motm, i hear it sucks big time and you get sooooo many stupid emails or in reversal people asume your the couple that have shagged the most people on the site 
and that deffinatly isnt us 
dam! somone come shag uuuuuus 
but back to fruit i agree i logged on earlier and very weirdly said to mark im sure its been a month since the clowns were on have they been voted again for this month but obviously not its a couple that weve never seen before and a very lush women with her boobies out :D 'thanks god for boobies' dont think id get through the day without seeing a pair
and lastly how come its not 1st-30th/31st it changes on the 5th :S bit wierd aint it?[/color]
[color="violet"]luff tiffy and mark ...but mostly tiffy :D:D xxxxxxxxxx[/color]
and that deffinatly isnt us dam! somone come shag uuuuuus but back to fruit i agree i logged on earlier and very weirdly said to mark im sure its been a month since the clowns were on have they been voted again for this month but obviously not its a couple that weve never seen before and a very lush women with her boobies out :D 'thanks god for boobies' dont think id get through the day without seeing a pair
and lastly how come its not 1st-30th/31st it changes on the 5th :S bit wierd aint it?[/color]
[color="violet"]luff tiffy and mark ...but mostly tiffy :D:D xxxxxxxxxx[/color] when i saw the motm my first thought was who the f*ck are they as i can ever recall seeing them in the chatroom.i did ask in the chatroom if anyone had seen them and surprise surprise nobody said they i have no problem at all if the motm is a cpl with a stunning body etc but its annoying when the ppl have been on the site less than a month ,appear to have met nobody and nobody knows the motm should go to ppl that contribute to the site and are frequent visitors to the chat offence to this months motm its not there fault at all i'm sure they are a very nice cpl and we wish them well on the site
[quote user=funkydiva35]sexy 40......
me and markie hav stopped swingin for abit....chek both profiles....we hav put not meetin at the mo!!
reason.....markie luvs watchin me wiv guys, he gets quite a kick outta it.....but i absolutley hate him playin wiv girlies.....and it did start to mess up our relationship, and i nearly chopped his bollox off.....hence we decided to take a break from it all!!
we r still doin the socials but jus not playin at the mo....and to be honest since this decision as bin made, our relationship is a lot stronger!!
swingin as bin a big part of my life for a yr now but im foooooked if im gonna lose the man of my dreams!!
i dunno wot others think....afta readin this, no1 will talk to me agen in the chatroom......lolololol
funky nutta xx
off to see sum fireworks......xxx[/quote] I think that's very honest of you babes and no I wasn't referring to you lol. I'll always talk to you hun you know that xxxxx
Very good topic Serens as I have often wondered how it all works from a couple's perspective. Especially as being on here as a single girl I really only need to think about myself and what I want out of swinging.
I am not sure though if couples who do have these insecurities (and I am sure there are many) would be comfortable in discussing them.
Or then again, maybe there are also couples out there who have run into this problem and have managed to deal with it so both parties are comfortable, happy and possibly have come to a compromise or solution as to how they can both get out of swinging what they so desire.
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:laughabove::laughabove::laughabove::laughabove:We all have our little isecurities, fears and doubts from time to time in everyday life, but do these matters have any place when it comes to swinging?. As a couple ourselves this is mainly about couples, so lets take a scenario ... Lets say the female half wants to swing with other guys and the male half wants to swing with other girls, but his partner is insecure about this and reacts accordingly with paranoia and doubt. The male half wants to please his partner but feels pressured into letting her have the fun while he gets very little or none. Now obviously this happen the other way around too, perhaps more so, but either way is it right and is trouble brewing later on?. We have been lucky enough to meet couples who just like us are totally secure with each other, but we know there are those that are not... so what do you peeps out there think?.
I do agree with you Fruit in a way. I think maybe a way to monitor it could be that you needed to be established and have comments in order to qualify to become MoTM.
I mean there are a lot of successful peeps on here that do not actively take part in the chatroom or forums so you couldn't really use that as a qualifying tool.
Just my tuppence worth...
As far as it stands Blondes yep... Saturday 7th February 2009 - venue in Leeds city centre still tbc (and being worked on) with a number of options going out in December from us regarding hotels!
We're still trying to get as many people interested in going to the meet before we take a couple of weeks off for the baby before launching into the organising stage full steam!
Spread the word!
P&H
Ok sexy peeps... the latest list we have for the proposed Leeds meet in February is as follows:-
Penninecpl
Sudsy
The_Lady
Funandfunky
Montyjessy
Zoeandi
Leggyass
Foxyfun
Phda
Jobcarbon
Miss_CCrider
Wendysampson
Pitandjane
Cuddles-Muscles
Babydevil
Fun4us
Si2171
Goodtime1
Jeffason
Funandplay
Fruitmedley
Analfairy
Miss-Serenity
P2l4ever
Meli
Grimscouple
Madmancunian
Singleguy6
Hotstory69
Pyro35
Kay-de
With Hayley's baby now due any day, we may not be able to check for a while but please continue adding to the thread if you are interested. Alternatively, please mail us for more details.
We'll let you all know how the birth goes and hopefully will catch up soon!
P&H
h sam was hoping i could be your bridesmaid lol but need a shag aswell xxxxxxxxxx
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