From our perspective, we use the chatroom purely as a fun thing, have a few drinks at the weekend, a bit of a dance to some music and good banter. Sadly though we find that some nights there are 70 plus people in there and hardly anyone chatting ... where did the sense of humour go?
The Lady was the enigmatic goddess of somethingness in Terry Pratchett's 'Colour of Magic'.
I kinda liked it her all seeing eyes, although not particularly apt for me as I tend to miss the blatantly obvious.
Also, I have expensive tastes. the_lady seemed appropriate for that xxx
Justme... you can partner us! mwah!!
:bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce:
ooooo pencil me in 4 this one....anyone fancy partnering up?
Erotica show??? Must google that me thinks...
I do my Tesco shopping online & get it delivered,not that I`m a lazy fecker,its just easier & I hated queueing my local Asdas(10 deep & a few empty cash points).
Neil, could I make a suggestion coming from someone who is having to stick with a budget at the moment.
Do your Tesco shopping online. You have more of a selection, you can pick the time you want it delivered (anywhere between 7am-11pm) and your shopping cart gives you a tally of how much you are spending. I find this works for me as I only end up buying the things I need rather than all the stuff I see and I think looks yummy! Plus on a lot of items they have a box where you can search for cheaper alternatives if you are really conscious of sticking to your budget.
Plus this could work well for you if you are at home looking after the kids and you don't need to drag them around the supermarket.
Happy shopping!
Oli xxx
Headin for a naughty night with a friend this saturday (15th) - hotel booked in central london...
Would love to meet with a single girl or couple so she can indulge in her fantasy of playing with another girl - and maybe I can indulge mine and join in ;-)
still same mr molly prefers his famly ie nieces n nephews to a real family given him 2.5 years 2 make his mind up n he prefers them to me lol no more 2 be said go on girls make his day cos he don't give a shit bout me xx
I agree with crystalpd. I reckon that only a very small percentage of the odd members are actually active. Even 5% would probably be guessing too much. So many people come on here, have a nosey, sign up for the hell of it and never come back again. this is why I would like to see the 'last seen' bit on the profiles to be changed in order to more accurate. I mean it really can't be that difficult. Last seen 'more than 2 weeks ago' is really not terribly helpful. I mean they could have signed up once a year ago and never came back or they could have simply been on holiday for a couple of weeks. The tag on a profile telling us whether a member is a free member or premium member s a start though. But still, the membership numbers are very misleading.
Everyone who has ever signed up to SP since its inception is probably still listed in that number Blonde (including AT LEAST 100,000 who never had any intention of actually doing anything other than getting some cock pics out into the public arena and then never re-visiting the site ever again).
Its a valid question though. The cynic would say that Admin can use those numbers to run a PR spin on the site "having the biggest membership in the UK" or being "the UK's most popular swingers site" when in all reality, there are probably only about a thousand (if that) active users to the site (paid and free) and of those maybe two hundred and fifty paid up members (guess) who actively chat, use the facilities and arrange meets.
Therefore, is quantity better than quality?
Hundreds of thousands of inactive members should not a swingers site be based on...
P&H
:bounce:thats cool monty loved it love jules xxxx
Monty
Simply BRILLIANT! Keep em coming!
P&H
:giggle: now that's not bad at all :giggle:
Sexy bays you are right ... we didn't want to be on the front page and people should be given the choice, but unless people complain it isn't going to change I guess. Some people are happy with it and that's cool but it's not something we would welcome again let me tell you lol xxx
Well thanks everyone, many interesting points there, the general consensus seeming to be if you have insecurities, you could be heading for trouble!! ... We had someone throw a hissy fit in the chatroom once over a jokey comment that some guy made... so we thought oh dear avoid them then lol ... strange thing is though, despite avoiding them the person still has to do the sarcasm thing in the chatroom ... are we bothered? lol no it's amusing but insecurities make people do the strangest things ... you have been warned :grin:
I would love to feel steve in me and me and in you
Well said nancy :lickface::clap:
We had MOTM in our first month here ... ok we were using the chatroom and cam regularly but it was something we weren't comfortable with and were more than surprised about. I think jels bells is right, mostly pic collectors do the voting, but that's not to have a go at the people who genuinly vote for the right reasons. As there's no proper criteria for this "acolade" then things won't change ... but do we care? do we fook! lol
Well, Manic says it all really!!!! :-) :-) :-)
I've not been on this site for long, just over a month but I am a little frustrated as to what you ladies want. Do you want sexy chat, pictures or sexy meets. give me some ideas so that i can be a more attractive proposition for you ladies.
Can Admin actually tell us how many votes were cast to make them MOM??? And were they voted for by established members... premium (paying) members or free members?
Interested to know those little nuggets of info!
P&H
F3 Ithought you knew why I called myself my profile name?
Well if I had been born Female I definately would have been Debbie,and as for the 1959,thats my year of birth,its a pity I came out the fecking wrong sex,but thats not my fault, ggggrrrrrrrrr.
Serens no insecurities here I swing both ways,but then again I haven`t found my ideal partner yet,so she/he has no say in the matter.