Join the most popular community of British swingers now
Login
Ste_n_kez
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 60
Bisexual Female, 59
0 miles · Cheshire
Forum
Warming the Bed
[quote="beaneedsu"]We do exist. Personally i'm just very picky about who i meet. And i don't just meet people from this site.[/quote]
We know you and many other single ladies exist in swinging beaneedsu. We have been swinging for years ourselves and have had some great sexy evenings with the single bi fems that we have met. My point is that to join a swinging site and expect to have bi fems line up for a shag without making any real effort is laughable....
Warming the Bed
I saw this thread on another website and thought it may be worth posting the same question here. So here goes......
What would be your SP theme tune if you could have one playing when you log into chat or the the forums to announce your arrival?
Our song would have to be [url=" "][color="darkblue"]Lets Shag[/color][/url] <<<<< [i][size="16"]click the link [/size][/i]
:evil2:
:evil2:
Warming the Bed
:cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup: :drinkies::cheers::beer::crazy::thumbup:
Warming the Bed
Welcome to the site James.
As you are new here I thought I would give you some advice.
You say in your profile that you are married, but you don't say whether your wife knows that you are looking for extra marital sexual activity.
The reason I ask is that swinging by definition means that [u]all[/u] involved are happy with said activities, if that is not the case then you are looking for an adulterous act with "swingers".
I'm not saying that no one will involve you but if you make your position clear, you will give swingers all the facts to allow them to make a decision about inviting you in to there sex lives.
Hope you have lots of fun in swinging :thumbup:
Ste & Kez
Warming the Bed
"Is cheating wrong?" Short answer YES!
Cheating is NOT swinging in the lifestyle. "Swinging is an engagement in sexual activity with someone other than one's [u]spouse/primary partner[/u], with the full knowledge and consent of [u]that person.[/u]"
To decide that it is only you as part of a couple whats some extra sexual pleasure is a selfish act. Your partner may have the same urges as you. If you love your partner, why not talk to each other about your thoughts about increasing your joint sexual experiences 
There are plenty of single men and women who are more than happy to accommodate a swinging couple
There are plenty of single men and women who are more than happy to accommodate a swinging couple
Warming the Bed
,There is also this action to be used ......On every ones profile there's a report link, use that to report them to Admin, they will then remove them from the site as they don't wish things like this to have people like that on here.
Sadly the offended member left the site without taking any advice
Warming the Bed
[quote="Ste_n_kez"]HI guys and welcome to the site.
I would recommend taking your time, get used to the site and have a go in the chat room. As for how safe your videos are, think of it like this.... any pictures or videos you ever post on the internet are potentially subject to abuse by internet users. As far as your security on this site is concerned, I would direct your questions to Admin via a support ticket. Follow this link if you wish to ask Admin After reading your profile
"Both new to this but [b]the thought of fucking in front of another couple [/b]really gets us going. We are not sure about any swapping, suppose time will tell and only if we all were comfortable with it."
Take a look at the Swinging Clubs in your area. I would recommend finding a club that has couples only nights for your first toe dip and there is never any pressure to do anything if you don't feel comfortable. All clubs have a NO means NO! policy.
Good look in your adventures...
Ste and Kez xx[/quote]
Warming the Bed
HI guys and welcome to the site.
I would recommend taking your time, get used to the site and have a go in the chat room. As for how save your videos are, think of it like this.... any pictures or videos you ever post on the internet are potentially subject to abuse by internet users. As far as your security on this site is concerned, I would direct your questions to Admin via a support ticket. Follow this link if you wish to ask Admin After reading your profile
"Both new to this but [b]the thought of fucking in front of another couple [/b]really gets us going. We are not sure about any swapping, suppose time will tell and only if we all were comfortable with it."
Take a look at the Swinging Clubs in your area. I would recommend finding a club that has couples only nights for your first toe dip and there is never any pressure to do anything if you don't feel comfortable. All clubs have a NO means NO! policy.
Good look in your adventures...
Ste and Kez xx
Warming the Bed
Thanks for that Sid_n_Nancy.
Both this post and the genuine single guy advice post were taken from a site that we have been on since 2003 and they were taken in the right spirit on that site so I thought I would try to give the majority of genuine single swingers something to chuckle about. I would have thought that only the people that recognize there actions from the joke post would get upset, and lets face it, the swinging community is better off with that minority.
Us like you Sid_n_Nancy have been swinging for years and have come across plenty of guys over the years that think this post is good advice for swinging 
If anyone is offended by this joke, please ignore the post and get stuck in with some positive posts of your own. After all swinging is much more than notches on the bed post. It has always been a friendly scene for friendly people.
If anyone is offended by this joke, please ignore the post and get stuck in with some positive posts of your own. After all swinging is much more than notches on the bed post. It has always been a friendly scene for friendly people.
Warming the Bed
[quote="Ste_n_kez"][quote="cheeky40"][quote="beaneedsu"]Why do people have to ridicule and mock others. Though I'm sure it will just be written off as 'just a joke'.
I've met a number of lovely single men from both this site and other sites, and I'm sure they must find this kind of thing insulting.
For goodness sake give them a break![/quote][b] Dont worry yourself bea,all this from someone who as no wish to meet single males. Know i find that a joke lol x[/b][/quote]
I'm sorry you find our preference "a joke" cheeky40 [/quote]
[/quote]
Warming the Bed
[quote="cheeky40"][quote="beaneedsu"]Why do people have to ridicule and mock others. Though I'm sure it will just be written off as 'just a joke'.
I've met a number of lovely single men from both this site and other sites, and I'm sure they must find this kind of thing insulting.
[b]For goodness sake give them a break![/quote]Dont worry yourself bea,all this from someone who as no wish to meet single males. Know i find that a joke lol x[/b][/quote]
I'm sorry you find our preference "a joke" cheeky40
Warming the Bed
[quote="Sid_n_Nancy"][color="olive"]Genius!
This is by far the funniest thing we've read in here for years!
Some excellent advice, obviously thoroughly researched!
I would like to add that that single guys should ALWAYS ask women in swinging couples if they meet alone. If the answer is "no" then force the issue making sure you point out that you are a far superior bedroom gymnast than her partner could ever be. She is obviously confused about what she wants from the swinging scene and it is your duty to teach her.
[/color]
:bounce:[/quote]
lmao excellent addition Sid_n_Nancy
