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Sid_n_Nancy
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 42
Straight Male, 46
0 miles · Hampshire
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Sexpert
[color="olive"]If it was ok it wouldn't be called '[b]Cheating[/b]' now would it?[/color]
Sexpert
[color="olive"]It [b]IS[/b] just a joke, It's obviously not a dig at genuine single males! We have met many great single guys on this site but we have also been swinging for 8 years or so and have seen far too many of the type that this post is taking the piss out of.
Lighten up people!! [/color]
Sexpert
Hello Swingin_cat, Long time no see! I wonder who you could be referring to! lol
Sexpert
[color="olive"]Genius!
This is by far the funniest thing we've read in here for years!
Some excellent advice, obviously thoroughly researched!
I would like to add that that single guys should ALWAYS ask women in swinging couples if they meet alone. If the answer is "no" then force the issue making sure you point out that you are a far superior bedroom gymnast than her partner could ever be. She is obviously confused about what she wants from the swinging scene and it is your duty to teach her.
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Hi Michele,
I'm curious... What is it that you prefer about married or attached men? I'm not judging or anything, I just don't get what could be more attractive about a married man over a single man?
Nancy x
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I don't agree at all Midsdave, People stopped bothering with the site long before the upgrades! I think people stopped bothering with this site when they discovered Facebook!
Before the upgrades people were moaning about the site needing updating now you all moan about the upgrades ruining the site!
You say it's about making money but when Admin gave away free memberships, people complained!
If the site owners have given up on this site, could you blame them?
The reason we got bored was because there were just no new members coming into the chatroom, the number of chatters was decreasing week by week, so I would spend my free time on Facebook instead of here.
Sexpert
[quote="oliviak"]Bloody hell what's been going on in this place? I hardly ever come in here any more after rejoining. I have no idea what this is all about and to be honest I'm not really interested. [/quote]
oooooooh! :thumbup:
[quote ="oliviak"]But I will say this. When I do come on here all I see is people whinging and moaning about this, that and the other including about the fact that there doesn't seem to be many people around anymore in the chatroom etc. I wonder bloody why!? If I was a potential new member of this site and came in the forums to have a look round no bloody way would I join after seeing all you lot bitching and moaning and complaining about the site. [/quote]
aaaaaah! 
[quote]Yes I believe in freedom of speech (which does have legal limitations by the way so isn't totally 'free' as such) but to be honest you are actually all contributing to the downfall of the site with the constant moaning in the public forums. No wonder people are leaving in droves and membership is down. Who would join after reading all this bollocks? [/quote]
Almost, almost! :wanker:
[quote]I think everyone needs to grow up and chill out. This site is meant to be fun!
God I need a shag.[/quote]
Shit too late, sorry! 
[quote]Yes I believe in freedom of speech (which does have legal limitations by the way so isn't totally 'free' as such) but to be honest you are actually all contributing to the downfall of the site with the constant moaning in the public forums. No wonder people are leaving in droves and membership is down. Who would join after reading all this bollocks? [/quote]
Almost, almost! :wanker:
[quote]I think everyone needs to grow up and chill out. This site is meant to be fun!
God I need a shag.[/quote]
Shit too late, sorry!
Sexpert
Blondes are right, if Mods were voted for by the members they would only vote for their friends, It would never work.
Sexpert
Bloody hell! Haven't been on here for a while as we decided to try a different site but I do like to check back every now and again in the hopes that it has livened up.. Ha! It finally has but it's all bullshit! This is supposed to be an adult site, try acting like adults!!
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Davyxxx I think that is disgusting behaviour, you should have reported the people that were bullying!
I can't believe that in a site like this where people claim to be "open minded" that members have such a childish attitude and prehistoric opinion!
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[b]IMHO if this site was a horse we would have shot it by now! [/b]
The majority of the time we have stuck up for this site and stayed with it for years but over the last year or so we've watched it gradually die a slow and painfull death!
We don't get to come in as often as we used to due to work etc. but when we do there's never more than 20 - 30 people in! even at the weekend!
We have no intention of leaving the site but certainly won't be paying anymore money out until the site improves! The site needs a new lease of life not a new colour scheme and a few buttons moved around! It desperately needs new members but there's nothing on here to bring them in!
People won't pay money to join a site like this when there are free sites that are livelier and other pay sites which are far more advanced.
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The majority of the time we have stuck up for this site and stayed with it for years but over the last year or so we've watched it gradually die a slow and painfull death!
We don't get to come in as often as we used to due to work etc. but when we do there's never more than 20 - 30 people in! even at the weekend!
We have no intention of leaving the site but certainly won't be paying anymore money out until the site improves! The site needs a new lease of life not a new colour scheme and a few buttons moved around! It desperately needs new members but there's nothing on here to bring them in!
People won't pay money to join a site like this when there are free sites that are livelier and other pay sites which are far more advanced.
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If you guys go again let us know! Been wanting to try Abfabs for a while but too scared to go on our own!
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[color="olive"][quote user=teecee1309]Yet again somebody takes the time to make a valid point about the problems on here, and yet again people take the piss.
Is it any wonder this site is going down the pan.
Until people start taking people's comments seriously and respectfully, what hope is there ??.
What happened to the old SP that we all knew and loved ??[/quote]
I thought this site was all about having fun? Agree with you on the "going down the pan" bit though!
And as for the original thread question, the reason no one has replied informatively is because no one (including you Teecee) can answer it! There's Nothing to sell at the moment, because it's arse and everybody is taking the whole thing too seriously![/color]
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[color="olive"]Maybe they should change it to "Photo of the Month"? Might get people uploading photos again as there really doesn't seem to be many lately. [/color]
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[quote user=biggirluk]
i blame the mods!
:doh: oops i just remembered i am one :-o
Mods are
brilliant!
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Completely agree!!!
... But ex mods are better!! [/color]:giggle::happy:
i blame the mods!
:doh: oops i just remembered i am one :-o
Mods are
brilliant!
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[color="olive"]
Completely agree!!!
... But ex mods are better!! [/color]:giggle::happy:
Sexpert
[color="olive"]It has become apparent to us that absolutely nothing is happening and people aren't happy!
Considering the site hasn't changed for ages how can this be the case? Or is that the main cause?
Is it because too many people have lost friends through members leaving?
Is it because People don't seem to get involved in the forums anymore?
Is it because too many people seem to come into chat and just comunicate through whispers?
Is it because there aren't as many private meets because everybody saves money/babysitting tokens for the socials?
We personally think it's because there's no quiz night!
[size="24"]YOU DECIDE[/size]
Do the poll! lol
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[quote user=nortypair2]tell ya what oli you knit me a pullover and fuck ya whilst ya do it we should finish about the same time and then i can go home all nice an warm ![/quote]
[color="olive"]And there's £10 from us if you can do it without dropping a stitch!
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... Kept thinking I could never live without you by my side...
:violin:
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[quote user=monkfish]The sunshine may have something to do with it, from our end were working on a few things to try and spark some more life into the place including a site makeover to brighten the place up.[/quote]
We want a coffee machine and prizes... no competitions just the prizes please?
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Woooooooooooooooooooooo!! :bounce::bounce::bounce::evil2::evil2::happy::happy::happy::thrilled:
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