I am a 30's attractive and naughty minded guy. Love erotica and passion rather than just sex - meaning I believe the mind is the biggest erogenous zone. I'm not the type of guy who is looking for bed notches and consider everyone's enjoyment not just my own. I have played the role of mild cuck and well as bull depending on what fitted at the time. I also enjoy giving DP and DV if that's one of your likes. I also enjoy very much giving long and sensual massages when in the right place/mood etc – people say I have good strong but gentle hands !!!. I especially like taking couples/women out to public clubs and suggesting to them which stranger to go and turn on and maybe caress. I have on occasion luckily been invited to take the female of the couple out for a drink while her partner remains at home, this was so that we could relay to him via texts what was going on, this is not for everyone but it was very enjoyable for everyone and of course it was only achievable because the couple trusted me - something I realise is important due to having been part of a couple in the scene previously. I am a gentleman in and out of the bedroom and always treat people with respect, I am very openminded and would also like to gently explore the BDSM scene (only done some mild very mild stuff so far) with the right people (BDSM may be a strong word for it at the moment - maybe tying and teasing and tantalising would be a better explanation). A great weekend to me would be to visit a couple and spend the whole weekend being naughty flirty and naughtily dirty Best Wishes