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beaneedsu
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 59
0 miles · Staffordshire
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[b]I second that![/b] 
Warming the Bed
I have to be honest and say that most of the problems I've had over the years have been with [b]couples[/b], not single men, and certainly not single women.
Some, [b]but not all[/b], seem to think swinging is all about them because they are a couple and therefore they are superior to all singles (women and men), with the attitude that [b]we[/b] need [b]them[/b].
This arrogance and belief that [b]they[/b] can belittle others because [b]they[/b] think there is some sort of hierarchy in the swinging scene and that [b]they[/b] are at the top of it, well it makes you feel sick.
[b]A question for the forum moderator:[/b] to mock and ridicule others = [u][b]bullying[/b][/u], so when are you going to act and remove posts that do this?
Warming the Bed
Why do people have to ridicule and mock others. Though I'm sure it will just be written off as 'just a joke'.
I've met a number of lovely single men from both this site and other sites, and I'm sure they must find this kind of thing insulting.
For goodness sake give them a break!
Warming the Bed
The first thought that entered my head was "why?", as in why do we have to fit in a category or categories?
Doing so only creates stereotypes or pigeon holes people, and this then leads to exclusion, ridicule etc etc.
I'm just 'me' and don't fit in a category or want to fit in one.
Warming the Bed
it isnt that hard. you need to be a bit bendy to reach certain bits but as long as the mirror and you are positioned well then it can be fairly easy. and the more you wax the less the hair grows back. ive been doing it for years so the hair is quite fine now and comes out easy. thank god!
Warming the Bed
i wont contact anyone who doesnt have photos on their profile. at the end of the day the photo doesnt have to show the persons face so being identified by someone is highly unlikely.
i want to see what someone looks like before i even think of contacting. i cant do that without a photo. so i think whats the point. of course, the photo may not be genuine but thats the risk you take.
Warming the Bed
Some years ago I worked in a GU clinic when I was a nurse. I can tell you from what I saw and heard that youre not always safe (in fact most of the time youre not) when performing unprotected oral sex.
If the recipient or giver has had an STI in the past or recently (depending on which STI) they can pass on the infection (dormant or otherwise) to you. It occurs if either person has broken skin around the genitals (the receiver) or oral health problems (the giver). It can also get passed through semen and vaginal fluids.
You are not going to know unless you do a full examination of the other persons mouth and genitals, which I don\'t think will ever happen when youre swinging!
The only way to be completely safe is to use protection for both oral and penetrative sex (especially anal).
Im not trying to worry anyone, but when youve seen what Ive seen it could put you off for life!
Luckily it didnt put me off, but I am very, very careful.
Love to all xx
P.S. Im not always this serious LOL
