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[quote user=cazansteve] not one to complain but we thought admin were vetting pics if so y are so many single men using pics of females on there profiles , we consider this a breach of rules as we were told this was not allowed . caz :mad
your quite right the pics must be of you not your latest shag. and as for whare is admin . may i point you to the CONTACT US box you cant miss it. OR ASK ONE OF US IN THE ROOM TO ANSWER YOUR QUIRIE.
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thank you sue i think peeps need to know that as far as i am concerned i take my roll vv seriously . peeps that come in here i count as good friends till they prove otherwise. i as are all the other mods come in here to have fun and help peeps welcome them etc , some times im in i dont even get to chat in the room , im wisperd to bits ( not a prob here to help ) but remember that WE aloso here to chat relax and enjoy the banter. it takes some time for us to come in to a room and chat by the time we deal with all the pics reports a roll as i say i enjoy and its shuch a reward when you chat to new members timmid at first then you see them blossom and relax even have a first meet . that makes my day... i take it you all know how to contact admin other wise you would not be here natting . so no more bitching about whare are admin. the same could be saids about some manners , whare are they???? right now i kjnow that view is not a popular one but i hope the room settles down and we all get along. treat peeps with care honasty and respect and youl find that you have a blast.
remember any one worth your tears will never make you cry. 
Great piece of advice from Sudsey & Sue.
As newbie I've made the mistake of the whispering one. Haven't said anything outrageous but didn't realise it was classed as being rude to other users.
I've made a few of the other mistakes mentioned but hopefully the comments above will stop me making other.
I found the addition of a webcam a great help with getting reponses. I also like to chat with others on a webcam as you've got the great help from body language. you can get webcams for a little as £5 but you'll get much better quality for £25-£30. A small price to pay if it helps your enjoyment of the chatroom.
Thanks Guys, see you in the chatroom,
WB.
No, You are in no way unwelcome!
I don't think single males are snubbed, We chat to single guys all the time and occasionally meet them! There are a lot of nice genuine guys out there, and a lot who get meets!
It is only the idiots who think this is a porn site that are not wanted.
Post edited 15-09-2006 11:27
Post edited 15-09-2006 11:27 I can understand that, we have all recieved the whispers, I have seen other members get some really lewd and very abusive ones. I know they are hard to ignore and yes it is frustrating. But the thing is nobody should let them get to you as hard as it is at times. They are just silly men who clearly can't go out and get a girlfriend for themselves, and have completely the wrong idea as to what this site is about!
There used to be a function in the chatroom that would allow you to block members from talking to you, maybe that would be a good idea.
Post edited 14-09-2006 9:04
Having known Ur4it for a couple of years we can honestly say we have never seen him be abusive or rude. He only ever whispers us to say "Hello" and is always polite.
We only reply to people in whisper if we want to, Generally we will just answer whispers in the main room. If we don't like a whisper we just don't reply, it's not really that difficult.
Dick again, Just to say thanks to jayne_damian, sudsy for there messages also to all the other people out there that have made me feel welcome.
I am meeting (in the chat room unfourtanatley) some great people and some fantastic characters so thanks to you all and hope to Chat/Cam to you soon, if you see me in the rrom come and have a chat I am a nice guy.
DICK
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Hi guys, As a newbee I am realy keen to do some Web Caming (?) to get things going and get some confidence, so all you sexy ladies out there or couples please get in touch. I have not done this before so anyone wanting to help me out please get in touch. I am not Interested in single males so please dont bother responding or pretending to be part of a couple.
I am sure there are plenty of people who would like to give it a go?
Dick
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:PYou most certainly are not snidey Funkymunkie!
Most people tend to change there name for a genuine reason, i don't really see what is wrong with a name change.
As to what Cat and Brian said we completely agree.
We find the directing the most irritating and it is not only single males who do this, lately we have found a few couples (not the regulars) to be rather pushy!
Charlie xx
A very big welcome dick, sounds like you have a wife in a million. Hope you find what your after on the site and you have lots of fun. You still could put pics on your profile, just dont do head shots. Most people dont on the public gallery, but they do in there private gallery. You will find for single males that it can be very hard to get meets, cos there are alot of single males which are total idiots, and all i can say is be yourself and honest, cos people then will get to know you and realise that you are a decent bloke. There are alot of single males on here that get lots of meets cos they are genuine people.
Just another tip to help you on your way, read people's profiles and respect there wishes, cos there are people that dont want single male (like us for example) but this doesn't mean we or other people wont chat to you in the chatrooms.
Have fun, and wishing you all the bst on the site.
Jayne & Damian
