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But we do normally skip any boring bits, unless we're watching the Lover's Guides when the boring bits can be interesting and helpful.
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ok ok i just wondered if it was just me or not but when i watch porn i cant sit an watch the 'boring' bits :sleeping:
i have to forward to the really dirty bits hehe
is it just me or does anyone else do it too?
saying that if an when(boss sat lol) i do watch it with other people i would just forward to the teasing bits of blow jobs and pussy lickin mmmmmmmmm then would prob be to busy to watch the rude bits lol:smug:
[i]Mo,
As Fluffs said if we lived closer we would be there in a flash as well, but you know that.
We have found that not only do we live miles and miles from most folk on the site and its understandably difficult for people to travel that far, but there are more people who just want to chat and not actually do anything. I realise its very scary when meeting people , both of us get really nervous still, but that adds to the excitement sort of.
We would love to meet folk who want fun aND to be friends. Hopefully we will.
And I promise if u guys manage to get to newcastle or if we get down south we will meet up and we will get that snog lol ( more maybe ).
Anyway we both think u guys are the best and would LOVE to see lots and lots of you.
Sue and Andy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
We've been members since March 2006 and still haven't met a couple. We've put postings on the forum for when we have child-free nights and no takers. We're quite happy to travel within reason but still nothing.
We do want to meet a couple for a drink, meal and see what happens but most of our child-free nights are during the week. Weekends for us are a problem due to Carl's work.
We've got two child-free nights this week - weds and thurs and two in a couple of weeks time.
We used to perform a lot in front of the cam but even that's lots it's appeal with the endless whispers from single males. Sorry but you can't really type when you're shagging and they get moody if you don't reply immediately.
Carl and Jeanne xx
From a male perspective, I'm not too bothered about shagging (strange but true), I would rather focus on pleasing Jeanne with my tongue and fingers. Funnily enough, Jeanne says she gets more enjoyment from it too.
Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy banging away but it's not the be-all and end-all. Sometimes our foreplay can last for a couple of hours, especially if there is chocolate sauce and vibrators involved.
Carl
he hasnt answered what his criteria for a single guy is when in an open relationship, or what he'd do if a girl he fell deeply in love with, and didnt want to share after a while became turned on by all this stuff,wanted to try it all (especially knowing he has!) and loved him as much as he did her? I'm interested to hear...
[color="darkred"]Think you could be right Mo, you don't see it so often anymore! On the other hand the socials are on a massive increase. Think people may be saving up free time, babysitters etc for those.
We haven't had a meet for a year now, we would love to be meeting but our circumstances are ridiculously constricted at the moment, plus we can't get to any of the socials which is a double blow!
To be honest though the private meeting has always been the best part of this scene for us, it would be a shame for us if it doesn't pick up again!
We've also found people don't seem to stick around for as long, and the sheer volume of people in the chatroom has made it harder to get to know people, especially when we have been out of it recently.
Still we have high hopes for 2008! :-)[/color]
Ok it's time for me to have a moan, sorry but i feel quiet strong about this and would like some constructive feed back pls.
Over the last month Si and My self have Tried our best to arrange a meet, we have tried giving a weeks notice, a few days, but most of all short notice " this is due to si's work".. we have offered to travel at least 2 hours one way to meet, also to accomodate at our house. and also to meet for drinks 1st.. i think we must have offered every possibility.
We Totaly understand Some of you have young families and so short notice is a NO NO, we also understand that the timing has to be right with the female side " girls u know what i mean".
Now i wouldn't say si and I are perfect by no means but neither are we Displeasing to the eye :grin:
We never see posting in the forums for people looking for meets, yet when we joined there seemed to be lots,
What we do see is lots of cpls half naked on cams at home alone, why is this why are people not out there meeting?
Are people more in to just chatting and flirting and watching cams rather than Actual swinging for real in the flesh, is it the fantasy that turns most on Rather than acting out the fantasies...
Just what is swinging to you all?
Ok thats My moan over :haha:
Mwah
Mo xx
[quote user=truescorpio]
Because it makes me sad to see perfectly good sockets go to waste
Whats this doing here?
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[color="darkred"]Merely to prove another point. If you're in a completely loving relationship but you wouldn't want to share her, Surely by your reckoning there are definately sockets going to waste??!
You've completely contradicted yourself in this thread. You can't complain about or pretend not to understand why most couples don't want to invite other men into their beds when you wouldn't yourself![/color]
I think you may have hit the nail on the head as to why we wouldnt want you in bed with us!!! We want people who see eye to eye with us and can understand that we really love each other, and that it turns us on to see each other doing all this stuff... It almost seems like you think what we do indicates a weakness in our relationship, whereas its really a strength.
And as it happens, our only swinging experience other than a meet with a couple and a bit of a kiss and cuddle is with ellie and a young guy, and I wasnt even involved. The fact is it turns me on like crazy to see ellie being naughty with other men, and girls, in fact its such fantasies that got us into swinging in the first place, its just important that people feel about sex how we do...
Jay
[color="darkred"][quote user=truescorpio]One thing I love about this site is how predictable people are, and how easily preconceptions can be shattered
As an individual, I can honestly say that if I was in a full, loving relationship wth a woman then I certainly wouldnt want to share her with anyone, male or female. This is just my personal preference and isnt a slur on any man who would (although judging from the number of couples looking exclusively for women it seems that there are no shortage of insecure men out there needing an ego rub)[/quote]
[quote user=truescorpio]
If I was in a particularly deep and close relationship however then I wouldnt, in fact I wouldnt be swinging at all - but thats just my personal preference and isnt a slur on anyone in this kind of relationship who does choose to swing
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[quote user=truescorpio]So why dont you then explain to me why couples openly looking to invite another man into their bed are so few and far between? If the balance struck me as 50/50 then obviously I wouldnt have any sort of arguement to make[/quote]
[quote user=truescorpio]Because it makes me sad to see perfectly good sockets go to waste[/quote]
Why have you created this whole thread and offended so many people, when bringing another man into bed with you and your loving partener is something you're not willing to entertain??
Surely you've answered your own question??
What if the girl you deeply fell in love with decided it was something she would like to try?
God i love being part of an angry mob! Where's me pitch fork!!![/color]
Well if you don't ask Debbie you don't get , in our case we don't get either way, we have tried a weeks notice, a few days notice, and short notice, we have offered to Accomodate,travel a fair distance looks like its just not ment to be, We are now looking to take our sexy bits else where lol
mwah MO SI XX
