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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 75
Bisexual Female, 75
0 miles · Kent
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Ermmm...feel a bit embarassed but I do like to see these pictures! As long as there are other ones too that is. I like to see as much as possible really. It didn't occur to me that there might be people who would object to ones of my bits too! Going to put them in the private gallery now I think.
What an interesting thread.
It's revealing a lot about swinging in general and some people's expectations in particular.
I'm a straight single male - I've been on the SP site for just short of two years.
I've posted before about why I'm here -- and it's simply because it's fun.
On a related thread I said that I swing as a single person because I am 100% single and have the opportunity to explore new relationships and new experiences.
I really like the excitement of the lifestyle -- both the anticipation of a potential connection (eg the fun in the chat room) -- right through to an actual meet where the excitement level during those first few moments is off the scale..
The sexxy encounters I've enjoyed have been without equal and I like to think I've made some great connections with people on the site - both single fems and couples -- and yes single males as mates..
Am I only concerned with the 'intimate physical' side of swinging - no, not at all. I can say that from everyone I've met I've learnt something about their lives - and shared some great ideas about life in general - and for me thats a very significant part of the meets.
Swinging couples are in my experience some of the most open people in the known universe. Almost without exception it is clear that they have a very strong bond. I often see my role as being the spice to an already successful relationship. I'm there as the catalyst for new ideas and the exploration of new fantasies. Works for me. There have been many times when I see the passion rising for the two of them and thats my cue to sit back for a while..
Some of the mails I've had back from lovely couples I've met tell me that I've fired them up to intense levels of love making afterwards when they're on their own. Great! -- and I respect what they've chosen. It's a privilege for me to share some time with them.
I make the claim that I am what it says on the tin -- and I'm completely happy to be judged by my peers about whether this is true..
Would I go to a social meet just to spend time with established friends and meet new ones -- yes, in fact that's happened several times already.
Would I go on a meet if there was no chance of playing when I got there. For a really interesting person yes I would -- in fact I've driven 200 miles to spent time with a particularly interesting woman in those circumstances -- and had a great time. And there's been other similar occasions.
Would I be happy for a female partner to go swinging -- either separately or as a couple. Definitely. My view would be that it's her life and her choice.
Swinging is a lifestyle choice for me. I really enjoy talking to new people -- and I love to try to give them a smile. People have helped me out on the SP site -- (one more than most) -- and I try to pass that on.
And finally, I've never had any expectations of meeting anyone. Hey, I'm not Sean Connery or Tom Cruise (nearer to Mr Bean I reckon )
Happy swinging 
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Happy swinging 
Luv ya to, your one in a million
mwah MO XXThanks to everyone who has left a commment.
so it seems i'm not Despro " wouldnt like to think of our selves as that" :grin: in posting regular threads about meets, just that im one of a very few who do these days. like mindy said there did used to be meet requests on here quiet regular, and now the socail events have taken off maybe this is partly to blame." shame there cant be both"
As some have said maybe best to look at a new site which we might well do, But DONT worry we wont be leaving , I love this site to much, everyone is so friendly and i do have some great fun in the chat room, maybe thats the prob that the chat room has become such good fun, people just like to stay at home in there comfort Zone and perv and fantasie rather than taking the step.
Well as most of you know im not a quitter and will keep posting my threads in the hope that we might just get a new meet :haha:
Thanks again sexy peeps
mwah MO XX
We tend to ignore mail that is rude or pushy and have probably forgot to reply to some messages that we intended to. But, we have also had a lot of our messeages ignored too. I think it's best not to take this too personaly.
I bet a lot of the single girls get more mail than they can keep up with!
