Hi Sexy People,
Me and Pete wana go to Utopia this Saturday night the 12th April, fingers crossed that we can get a sitter!!
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Is anyone free this Saturday Night to join us for a drink??
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Lolly & Pete x x x :inlove: :rose:
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2on2!! No I wouldn't!! :angel:
I'm a LOVER!! not a FIGHTER!! :doggy:
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I would stick the plaster where you couldn't see it to make the game more interesting and the Fluffys have the first guess, only fair as they thought of the game!! :giggle::giggle::giggle:
Lolly x x x aka Plaster Lady!! :gagged::gagged:
ok cant sleep...so here are some weird questions I have been asking myself
... is it ok to buy lots of totally impractical boots cos they look fantastic
... is it better to tell the truth and risk hurting someones feelings or better to not tell the whole truth and keep them happy, in this world and the real one !!!
...do men prefer skinny girls or ones with something to hold on to .
... why does my cars heating break just when it gets cold and start working again when its warm
... why cant I sleep !!!!!!!!!!!! arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
... oh and why are bosses totally not capable of doing there jobs properly even tho they get paid loads more than me.
Feel free to answer these questions lol......and yes those who know me I am totally bonkers at times.
:happy:what cams said lol...... seriously we couldn't add any more... if we really like a couple then their boundaries deinately wouldn't put us off meeting them...equally that works both ways...that's why we don't meet off the cuff after a five minute chat but prefer to get to know people a little and get a feel as to whether there's a connection there... pleased to say we think we've found a few connections so far .... roll on mk 
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[quote] Sorry guys have to add my view.... We are extremely new to this having only met one couple and what rules started as same room only soon changed so straight away I can appriciate that views and opinions of our personal boundaries can change.
As far as the kissing personally if your in for a penny your in for a pound and we want to enjoy the whole experience to which kissing plays a very important part not only to tease and urge the horn monster but all over the body so if im going to get into this scene im greedy im finding i want it all as time goes on and whatever we do in swinging box stays in that sexy fun little box its not comparable to my relationship.
However we all have our own personal barriers that are there to be respected non of them are right or wrong its all about its intent sexy fun..... We will hopefully be debatng this further with yas all in MK fingers crossed please xxx
Thats the difference sm-pd
Myself and Jason don't find kissing erotic, we find it an intimate pleasure. Something for us and us alone.
In fact, I've always had the no kissing rule in place, regardless of who my partner has been!
We class swinging as fun with sex. We don't need to snog other couples to get turned on. That can be achieved through laughter, oral or sensuous touching. Jason gets turned on by seeing other men fuck the living daylights out of me but kissing is our intimacy level and he'd go barmy if he thought I was getting intimate with another guy.
I'd rather give another bloke a blow job to get him hard than to try and snog his face off, but like I've said all the way along.... thats me!
However, I will say, we have never turned anyone down for their rules other than if they insist on bareback (cus thats just stoopid).
lots going looking forward to it
Ellie
xxxxxThank you all for your input......... I think the mass debate (knickerless obviously) is a dam good idea... I can see something happening at MK3 - but obviously, I am only allowed to snog ALL the women! lol
I did pick up on one point....
[quote] is that it would be very hard to meet people intimately and NOT kiss them[/quote]
To me, this is the crux of the matter. My version of the word [b]intimately[/b]and others versions possibly differ wildly.
To me, swinging is not what you would call conventionally intimate. Yes, we get our clothes off and yes we have sex. Thats erotic, basic and animal like. To me, intimacy is about laying in bed in someones arms, soemone stroking my hair or holding me when I'm blue, holding my hand when taking a walk etc.... and yes.. kissing
Maybe myself and jason are missing the point but obviously, what each and every one of us gets out of swinging is different. To us its fun, plain and simple fun. To others, its obviously something more!
Ooohh and True...... why keep your mouth shut now, your own opinion is just that, your own opinion.
hey mad
we too have had this debate many times. although we do not impose rules on each other, we accept other peoples boundries. if it feels right for either of us, we will do it. kissing is an important part of what we get out of this this, but it would not be a reason to not meet others.
mmmmmm now theres a thought, we should all get together and have a mas debate about it lol
hi fluffy can we join:happy: ?could u please send us details so we can book room 
[color="green"]Good organising Seren and Lolly -- two very sexxi ladies if ever I saw them :clap::clap:
Good to see mates off the site -- hope to get to know some of them a *lot* better next time xx :thrilled:
I never got to know the name of the gorgeous girl who looked like 'Sarah Connor' out of the Terminator films -- great snogger though 
Next time --- name badges and some kind of 'what you're looking for' kind of tags...
Mr Chunkey would need a badge that says - "If she has a pulse then I'm interested..." 
Hat off to yer m8 .....[/color]
Next time --- name badges and some kind of 'what you're looking for' kind of tags...
Mr Chunkey would need a badge that says - "If she has a pulse then I'm interested..."
Hat off to yer m8 .....[/color] Aaahhh but Chelle my lovely.....
Chris, like most men, has a perverted, deviant side that just loves watching two women!
I don't mind kissing other women, Jason loves to watch me do that, but I'm a tad pissy about the fact that there appears to be heaps of women out there who won't play because Jason won't kiss them!
Go figure that something so simple can be such a problem!
Oooohhh and brian...... I can still see straight up ya kilt !!! lol
After a heated discussion on another site, I thought I'd pose a bit of a quandry on here and see if I could get some sensible and unsensible answers.
Myself and Jason only have 3 rules in our swinging life. Safe sex always. No one else cums in my gob and he doesn't cum in someone else's gob (its technically 1 rule!!) AND ........
No Kissing
Now......... this has caused a bit of a stir on another site due to the nature of the people on there. Most are saying that they would never meet couples who do not kiss because it's more erotic!
However, those of you that use this forum know I've not been with Jason very long and married to him for only 3 weeks and I suppose that kissing is [b]ours[/b], an emotion that we seperate from our swinging life.
Could you therefore please tell me, would a No Kissing rule put you off meeting a couple and do you find it an antiquated rule. Or, do you agree with the rule as an emotional tie?
Thoughts please .......
Maddie
