[quote user=truescorpio]
But even so, the fact that you still take the easy view and accuse me of being arrogant, childish and unfriendly. All that I do, because I am the only one prepared to do it, is point out what everyone else turns a blind eye to.[/quote]
Easy view? we agreed with you earlier? No one is having a go at you for having an opinion. Least of all us! The difference is, and what everyone is trying to point out to you is that other peoples views are just as valid as yours.
[quote user=truescorpio]You said it yourself perhaps if a more 'respected'...how do you define that exactly? I know, you'll say a guy who is respectful, doesnt take things to heart or something like that, I'd say its a guy who shuts up and knows his place on here. Those guys are nice and easy to get along with arnt they?[/quote]
It's exactly what it says on the tin. Someone who has [b]earned[/b] respect from the other members of this site, male, female or couple.
[quote user=truescorpio]I owe you an apology Mindy[/quote]
For what?
The sad fact of the matter is that you think you're original, controversial and clever. But members like you come and go all the time. you're not the first and you certainly won't be the last.
We've been on this site longer than most, we've been in the scene even longer. The reason we disagree with most of the things you say is because from our experience and in [size="24"]our opinion[/size] you rarely get it right!
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Mr and Mrs Y...xxx[/quote]
:-o Thanks! Think I will put mine back on as it's not too explicit. Might keep Jays cock pics in private though!
Ellie
xxxxxI'm allowed to kiss women! apparently tis compulsary now I'm married.
Tried to get jason to snog a blokey but he ain't having it!
Seriously....... I think girl on girl kissing is more erotic for the blokey watching than for the women doing it! Well..... I go on experience, Jason just stands there with a fooking great grin on his chops!
I just think it absolutely hilarious that you think you know so much about this site and the swinging scene when you've only been here five minutes!
You've come into this site and created such a name for yourself that people are going to dissagree with you now no matter what you say. If any of the other [b]more respected[/b] single males had posted this thread I can guarantee the response would have been completely different.
Your arrogance and deluded opinion of how this scene works and how you think you should be treated precedes you now.
Good luck with that!
I posted this just in case other members were interested in our opinion. Of course you already knew what I was going to write you jumped up, arrogant child.
People like [b]you[/b] have made this the unfriendly place it is these days and exactly the reason we've had a gut full of this site.
Hmmmm True You realy should bother to read peoples profiles your self, if you did you would see what we are looking for... but hey dont bother WASTING YOUR time as you said im not even worth the bother, and from that remark i should think you will find many wont bother to take the time to speak to you, even tho YOUR not what there looking for.
I think You should read be4 you Judge
MO_
love always
Seren and Clwyd xxxxxxJust speaking personally, we are here for fun and laughs and hopefully make some friends too. We have been made welcome by he vast majority and are friendly to all... we love the banter of jokes and stuff that fly around the chatroom. Our profile explains most about us and is sincere... I agree that everyone is entitled to an opinion but when that becomes personal i.e names mentioned and insults then people will defend themselves myself included... I have said before that i don't prejudge people and firmly belive this site is for everyone and all tastes whether it's our cup of tea or not... in essence we intend to continue to have fun in our own way and are happy to chat and get to know anyone that wants to be friendly... be happy peeps 
[quote]... is it ok to buy lots of totally impractical boots cos they look fantastic
... is it better to tell the truth and risk hurting someones feelings or better to not tell the whole truth and keep them happy, in this world and the real one !!!
...do men prefer skinny girls or ones with something to hold on to .
... why does my cars heating break just when it gets cold and start working again when its warm
... why cant I sleep !!!!!!!!!!!! arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
... oh and why are bosses totally not capable of doing there jobs properly even tho they get paid loads more than me.[/quote]
Yes, yes, yes, yes and again.... yes
yes
Bigger girls.......summat to cuddle
Cus its time to stop going on holiday and get a new car
Cus they are generally men and therefore, stoopid!
I'm not gonna comment on anything that True has written except.......
Women (and that includes single and married) can be every bit, if not a dam sight more obnoxious than men on ANY swinging site.
I've had run ins with single blokes spouting twatitude but I've also had run ins with certain women who think they are gods gift (when in reality they are wrinkled old hasbeen's) and do what they like, regardless of who they hurt or piss off.
I don't think anyone on any site would have a problem with anyone if EVERYONE were to be totally [b]HONEST[/b] about what they want and what they are looking for and they did it with tact and diplomacy.
But as the most of the human race don't have the genetic make up to be totally HONEST, you are always going to get idiots and feckwits pissing others off and that unfortunately leads to others being tarred with the same brush!
If only everyone could play nicely........... things would be soooooooo much simpler.
Maybe it would be a good idea for there to be a thread on advice for single women. However it would be better coming from a single woman who has a lot of experience and success on the site.
Maybe some people join SP not knowing what they ultimately want to get out of it. It could be that they enjoy the chatroom and the forums but are not sure if they can go through with actually meeting for sex. It could take time for them to be comfortable enough to do that, or it may turn out that they don't want that at all. I imagine this is the case for lots of people who are new to this, single women in particular as they can be much more vunerable.
Ellie
xxxxxx
OH Dear Oh dear true....
Ok I ( MO ) Have read yor posting ( do you have to make them so bloody long what with shit mails you think i should reply to i just dont have time anymore to read the forums and most of all have fun on here) lol..
To be honest I cant rem every thing you said, but what did stick in my mind was the bit about people should not be here if its not sex there looking for...
Im sorry True This is total Crap, if people are happy to part with there hard earn cash then they have a right to be here and do what they want on the site, ( the same as you with your postings)
Some people want sex, some want chat/cam fun some just want friends and this is probbly the most relaxed friendly kind of site u can what im trying to say if they have paid there money dont they have a right to do what they like on here with out being told its just for sex.
True do i take it you wont be at the MK social.. as these were started just for friends on here to meet have a few drinks, they wernt about the SEX side of swinging. not saying it dont happen cause it do's as im sure the corridors of Jurys in will be a live with tip toeing round again this year lol...but for some its more than just sex.
I have never met you true and to behonest you have never made any real attempt to talk to me in the chat room ( what do's that tell me ) didnt think i was that bad lol) so i wont judge you i do my best not to do that with anyone, everyone has something good abt them as im sure you do..
But i do think u have over stepped the mark here.
Live and let learn
mwah MO_ X
True... I read your posts but didn't read any of the replies for fear of influence, but here's mine. So I simply take up the opposite stance to contradict you?... it's time to grow up sunshine and smell the coffee... because I or others don't agree with you it doesn't make us wrong (or necessarily right)... but don't bring my name into it for no reason. I have disagreed with you previously as is my right, but not simply to take up a contrary position, but because I feel you are wrong. Obviously you are unhappy with many things about the site but others are not...are you saying everyone else is wrong and you are right?... all I can suggest is you have other options if you are not happy... or could it simply be you like trying to be controversial just to get a rise out of people?... build a bridge and get over it true!
Ok I don't like to be predictable so I'll go ahead and agree with some of the points you have made!
I won't generalise though, there are some great single females on this site. But generally the single males do get a lot more flack. We've had single females show an interest, chat to us.. even arrange a date to meet. Then they disappear never to be heard from again. Whats the point?! If they are only here to make friends and have no interest in meeting, they should say so!
And yes they can be as rude as any of the single males, but then again so can some couples.
[quote user=truescorpio]
Ah hello again Ellie, my fave spectator, hows you?
Now we just have to wait for madchick to turn up with her socioligical standpoint, Sudsy with his 'everythings fine the way it is' approach, Mindy with her 'I'll just put the exact opposite of everything true writes' countering, and newcomer Serens who I suspect will bring something similar to Mindy .
...Oh, and the usual army of single males screaming 'WE ARE NOT WITH THIS GUY!!!' :mrgreen:[/quote]
You're the one who starts these debates True, you can't expect everyone to agree with you!
And what do you mean "spectator"?
Ellie
xxxxx
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...Oh, and the usual army of single males screaming 'WE ARE NOT WITH THIS GUY!!!' :mrgreen:[/quote]
You're the one who starts these debates True, you can't expect everyone to agree with you!
And what do you mean "spectator"?
Ellie
xxxxx 
He's off again! ;)