OK, so I am a novice, but surely enthusiam counts for something? Perhaps a novice excites the teacher in you? I am no poseur and like to have a drink at least before things get underway. I'm certainly not fat, but at just under 15 stone a little large. I have actually been in 3some once before, it was so awesome. My Ex was a little pissed and it just sort of happened. She often fanatasised about the experience, as I did!!, but she never had the nerve to do it again. :(