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What makes `idols`, `players`, and `swingles` so successful at getting multiple sex partners? How do you become one yourself? Learn Group Sex Theory...
In the world of dating, sex, and interpersonal relationships, "game" is king. From websites like to Jewish community dating groups, everyone is looking for something. The variety of people out there looking is as diverse as the variety of needs that need to be fulfilled. For many people that need is to have many partners. Why do some people have such an inner need for multiple sex partners? Consider what we at Seduction Insider call Group Sex Theory.
Taste Buds
For some people, one person can sexually gratify them, but not scratch their itch completely. Each of us is like a "different flavor". Some taste like commitment, some taste like melodies, some taste like marriage, some taste just like candy. Then there are the ones who want to do the tasting and taste everything.
What we have now is group sex - not at the same moment of course, but over time (weeks, months, and years) many `sexually free` people have had sex with so many other people who have had sex with so many other people themselves, that it is literally one big `orgy` of sex partners who have crossed each others paths via other people, often too many times to count.
These citizens of sexual gratification need no remorse and have no intention of being anything other than an interim partner to many and a permanent partner to none. These are the "idols".
Insatiable Deliberate Oversexed Liaisons (IDOLS)
Many of us know someone, male or female, that lives a bursting sexual lifestyle. They are flirty people, mysterious people, people with a bit of an edge every time you talk to them face to face. Hugely confident, they can be recognized by their sexual energy flowing like an alternative oxygen source that commands them. Yet they are everyday liaisons.
"Player" is quite a strong and pointed word. Historically this title was given mainly to men who have multiple partners for sex and dating. If you`re single and you date more than one person or have had sex with more than one person in a month, does that make you a player? No. If so, half of America would be players. This term was coined by married, devout religous women and chicks that got burned. So we will change the name of "player" to "idol".
Idols are both men and women. Since there are only two sexes, it is safe to say that men have not cornered the market on casual sex. Think about it, if so many men are players, who are the women they are having sex with? That`s right, women want to play and get laid just as much as men do, and they are. Heterosexual `group sex` means both sexes are equally involved.
The current divorce rate in the United States is around 50%. Doubtful that those people stopped having sex or dating because of a failed relationship. On the contrary, dating websites today boast "millions of members". Millions of people are single and looking for love and many more are just looking for sex. Free love! Casual sex is as popular today as it was in the 60`s. STD statistics will attest to that. Men and women both are embracing their sexuality and freedoms previous generations didn`t embrace.
Women are more powerful idols today than ever before. I know a flight attendant from American Airlines; last week she "drove the bus". Translation: Back to back partners. She had four sex partners in three days, two in one day. That is "driving the bus".
There is a woman that frequents my coffee shop. I play Russian roulette trying to run into her. She is an idol, no doubt. She is really about 6.5 out of 10 on looks. However, her sexual energy eats up everything in its path. Adopting an almost Madonnaesque flavor toward men and women. All of which want to fuck her or be her just from the way she makes eye contact with you and at you. It is quite obvious she has sex when she wants and with whom she wants as much as she wants. She is not the "sex kitten", but more the "sex lioness". Patient, shrewd and deliberate is the behavior of the seasoned idol.
Let`s Get Ice Cream
Idols are addicts, and sex is there drug. When you drink alcohol and do recreational drugs, you build up a tolerance, generally increasing either use, consumption or both.
The tolerance of an idol does not change, because their drug is "different people" and the drug changes each time. A sexual cycle that is endless. Idols fuck because they want to see a variety of flavors get off on them. No two flavors are the same, which is their addiction. Each partner is special in their own unique way, which is the craving idols have to fuck and get fucked. It is as much about the "new experience" as it is about the sex. The idol needs more than 31 Flavors. More than 31 flavors? That`s Group Sex Theory for you.
Singles & Swingles
The idol comes in more than one flavor also. Swinger clubs (or group sex as traditionally defined) and full swap parties are no longer a subject taking place in some secret basementpanies like "Sandals" offer full week getaways to exotic beach resorts with hundreds of other couples. These people will spend more time during the week fucking everyone other than their spouse. I personally know a doctor that goes twice a year, but takes a different girl each time. He is a plastic surgeon, an idol and an idol maker.
Idols wear stethoscopes, lingerie and even wedding rings. They are rich and they are blue collar. Some people just need to have sex with various partners to be fulfilled physically and mentally. A stimulus only released when breaking in a new subject. That euphoric state of sharing an orgasm with someone you`re not familiar with. It is only in these brief moments that the idol becomes whole again. Until next time of course.
Game Is King
Real idols are not the stripper style chicks at the local who`s who lounge, waiting to see who is looking at their fake lips. Nor are they the thirty something euro-style knockoff boys that wear too much cologne. Those are the people that created the stigma of "player". A real player, you will never see coming. Part of the game of the idol is seducing their next partner. Seduction is the name of the game. The gal from the coffee shop and any other idol can turn it off or even disappear in plain site when necessary. They control the flow and won`t blow their cover until they have you in bed.
The idol likes this part of the game because they know the stimuli will get released. Thus, their addiction fulfilled. When an idol is seducing you, you become very special to them. Truth is you are the most powerful person for that moment. The idol needs to have you and wants you believing you should fuck them. Until you do, you may not know it, but you`re the idol, but only until you do.
The idol, like the rest of us definitely has an Achilles heal. What is their nemesis? Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are their only enemy. The idol lives by the "pleasure principle", if it feels good do it. There is no remorse or guilt to live with. There are no relationship responsibilities or commitments generally. History though has shown us that everything is a numbers game. Approximately two-thirds of people who acquire STDs in the United States are younger than 25. At least one in four Americans will contract an STD at some point in their lives.
Knowing if someone has an STD is almost impossible unless they tell you or unless you get tested together. Herpes is an STD that can only be detected once you have it, and then it is too late. The key is being safe yourself. Personally, I have had and will have many sexual partners. If I use protection, I can worry less about them. Be responsible, when you protect yourself, you protect your partner.
Being an idol (player) can be the most sexually fulfilling noncommittal relationship one can have. If you like having sex with many different people, then feel free to drive the bus. Remember though, whether you`re the idol, or the subject, live by a standard of being honest with your partners and staying clean. You deserve it and so do they. This will allow you to taste -- and be part of -- all the wonderful flavors out there.
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Group Sex Theory
By Jackson Morris
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