Hi ,I'm Nick.
After what seems like a lifetime of agonising I've finally plucked up the courage to join this site , and actively seek out people who might share the same sexual preferences as myself.
Trouble is, joining is one thing, but to manage to find the right people to chat to , and hopefully meet, is the difficult only method I've come up with so far ( very unsuccessfully ) is to randomly mail anyone who looks like they could be compatible.
I'd be really, REALLY grateful for any advice that the more experienced members could impart on this keen but uninitiated newbie !!
Many thanks , Nick
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Completely agree Ur4it. There's nothing worse than people assuming they have a green card to shag my wife because we're members in here! lol
lovea3some, pictures on your profile are VERY important, but remember you can put them in your private gallery if you're not happy with them being public. The chatroom is the key though, It's the best way to get to know people and for you to gain peoples trust.
It will take time though just be patient.
It's more about friendship for us, the sex part is just a bloody great bonus lol
Monk my m8 your right! Friendship is one of the best parts of the site bugger look at us now, been friends for years and 9 times out of 10 with have a pint and a fucking good laugh ok the sex is great too.... lol
Hi Nick getting back to advice which I don't give out to much but feel ii know just where your coming from , the site is not a easy shag its not I fancy her once I email them we will meet up!! For start think about coming in chat and getting to know, everyone ok there are thousand on here that never use it but believe, me they would get far more meets if they did.
Information, pictures are very important , are you wiling to travel if so how far you can let couples single stay at your place? Sit back and right a list of things to put on your profile better still don't copy but read others profiles and see how it's done. it could take 6 months to get your first meet could take 48 hours but until its how people feel about you and once the trust is there it will happen
Good luck! And play fair
Wayne
Post edited 28-06-2007 9:43
Post edited 28-06-2007 9:44
A big thank you to those that have taken the time to post replies..it's good to know that there are people on here who know how to string sentences together !
I'll have go away and sort out how to put photo's on the private gallery...and find some that won't scare everyone !!
Rest assured, I'll be back in touch soon.
Nick
