So far I've sent a few messages dropped a couple of msgs on the forum and been seriously intimidated by the randomness of the chatroom. Anybody got any tips? Mike X
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Hiya Mikem - the ratio of single males as opposed to couples and single fems on here is riduculous so the only advice I can give you is to be respectful, have a good banter and laugh in the chat room (and don't be shy in the chat room just jump in thats what the rest of us do) Always check profiles out before you contact people and if it says no single males they mean it. Hope you find what you're looking for xx
Thanks IanandKel, I will have to just take the plunge with the chatroom won't I!
Hi Mikem...
Let us give you a couples perspective, after all it is easier for us, isn't it??...lol
We recently messaged 96 couples that appeared to fit our 'requirement'...
13 replied, we have met 7 of them. Of those, 2 are couples that we are comfy with and played with since...
In essence you dont appear to be doing anything wrong, but perhaps need a bit some patience and an element of luck...xx
Take care, have fun
Jel & N
xxx
Hi Mikem,
Just like ianandkel said, but even if couples dont want single male's, this doesn't mean they wont talk to you in the chatrooms. Its hard when your new especailly when you are a single male cos the lady's on the site (single and couples) get alot of males asking to show parts of there body's on a regular basis. There is some females very happy to do this, but there are a lot that dont want to. So be yourself, honest, and just join in with conversations. More your name gets known, and people find out if your a nice guy then it will be easier. One of the good ways to get known is to say hi when you enter a chatroom, and again bye when you go. Hope weve help you and you have a good time on here. Were on most nights and during the day so just say hi and we'll chat to you.
Jayne & Damian
Thanks folks,
It's very reassuring to know that it should be a matter of perseverence and plesentness, hopefully it will be seen that I have both!
See you guys in the chat room, got a webcam to go with the laptop, that does see to be a bit of a boon on there!
Take care...
Mike X