Because I am down as a single male I think it turns people off, I am married with children but my wife does not want to join in, happy for me to go and explore. Cannot post photos due nature of Job but happy to Cam in a secure enviroment with the right people Hope to here from you sexy people :-?
Post edited 08-09-2006 12:21
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Hi Everyone
A very big welcome dick, sounds like you have a wife in a million. Hope you find what your after on the site and you have lots of fun. You still could put pics on your profile, just dont do head shots. Most people dont on the public gallery, but they do in there private gallery. You will find for single males that it can be very hard to get meets, cos there are alot of single males which are total idiots, and all i can say is be yourself and honest, cos people then will get to know you and realise that you are a decent bloke. There are alot of single males on here that get lots of meets cos they are genuine people.
Just another tip to help you on your way, read people's profiles and respect there wishes, cos there are people that dont want single male (like us for example) but this doesn't mean we or other people wont chat to you in the chatrooms.
Have fun, and wishing you all the bst on the site.
Jayne & Damian
Hi Dick,
Welcome to the site, from another single male!
Yes, it can be frustrating (especially when you get couples with ladies as scrummy as Jayne who don't want to meet us 
), but that's just life I'm afraid.
If you're prepared to bide your time (and it took me about 6 months to start getting reliable meets), people will grdually start to get to know you and accept you.
If I were you, I'd make full use of the chatroom - it's the very best way to get you personality across - profiles really don't do that, and if you've got a webcam as well then so much the better. (I've posted a "Chatroom Tips for Newbies" thread in the "New and Nervous" forum section, which may be useful for you).
Have fun - this is a good, genuine site, and you should eventually start to reap the rewards.
Post edited 09-09-2006 17:30
), but that's just life I'm afraid.
If you're prepared to bide your time (and it took me about 6 months to start getting reliable meets), people will grdually start to get to know you and accept you.
If I were you, I'd make full use of the chatroom - it's the very best way to get you personality across - profiles really don't do that, and if you've got a webcam as well then so much the better. (I've posted a "Chatroom Tips for Newbies" thread in the "New and Nervous" forum section, which may be useful for you).
Have fun - this is a good, genuine site, and you should eventually start to reap the rewards.
Post edited 09-09-2006 17:30 Dick again, Just to say thanks to jayne_damian, sudsy for there messages also to all the other people out there that have made me feel welcome.
I am meeting (in the chat room unfourtanatley) some great people and some fantastic characters so thanks to you all and hope to Chat/Cam to you soon, if you see me in the rrom come and have a chat I am a nice guy.
DICK
xxxx 8)
