been on here nearly a year now, iv been so patient & never met anyone from this site, im i fussy nooooo- just a lad who wants to have some fun......who wants to have some fun ?
Single males may find it harder to get meets as we all know there is a lot that just think cos its a swinging site that its a cattle market, and how wrong they are. There are more couple and single females on the site looking only for couples only, but there are people on the site looking for single males.
The only advice i can give you is that your read peoples profiles and if they say no single males then they mean it. People like to get to know people in the chatroom before they think about swinging with them, alot like to meet socially first to see how you all get on, so dont be to disappointed if you do meet someone for a social and they dont want to go any further. Its nothing against you, its just that you aren't for them. Talk to people in the chatroom like you would anyone else, ie :- one of your non swinging friends, or how you would talk to someone in a pub. Get your tits out and do you fancy a shag will put most people off.
Another idea is to get to some of the social events being arranged as people can get to know you person to person.
Have you read the thread in the forum under 'new and nervous' section, It called 'chatroom tips for newbies', there is alot of good and useful info and advice.
Hope this has help you, and best of luck for the future.
It may just be your approach, as Truescorpio says. Think about what you're putting in the message, and pay attention to the profile of whoever you're messaging.
I had my first meet today, and i didn't have ANY pics up when it was arranged. This was also the first couple that i'd asked to meet, maybe just lucky!?!
Keep at it m8, and good luck. ;)
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