Whos in charge here us men or the ladys,seems us men do as we are told as normal and the ladys do as they like, They tell us what they want, how they want it,how often , how fast or slow, and then tell us when to stop, they even tell us who with ffs, should we put our foot down and say hang on whos in charge here,or should we just grin and enjoy it, and thank fuck we aint married to some borin get who dont want to swing.
[color="blue"]Women are in Charge :bounce:
It is a man's job to know what we want and when we want it.
And even if we say no (for example when shopping) we really mean yes.
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As a singleton i suppose i`m in charge,but then i do have a split female side has strong desires,clothes,shoes,girls and certain my male side at the moment,has little desires,just girls.
I suppose thats why I`m twoontwo,hope this wasn`t just for you xx
So My Vote Goes To the GIRLS,(sorry Guys)
In my far from humble opinion :giggle: we are all in charge of our own destiny and as such control who we are with and who we see.
Ladies usually control whether a meet takes place or not in the majority of situations :grin: but men make the move in the first place! :welcome::karaoke::notes:
I make that a tie (ffs where is a bdsm icon :evil2
It takes two (or more!) to tango
Rosie xxx
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Seems to me that i'm rarely happier than when Talis is 'fully' in charge. If we guys are lucky enough to have found sexual partners who are confident about getting their sexual needs met and are happy to be clear about that what those needs are, then hell, what is there to complain about? I'm more than happy to hand in my trousers and 'adopt the position' to receive the large thumb shaped indent on my forehead! long live the revolution!!!! lol, Aaron
hi 2on2,
well i would say women are totally in charge and pete would say men are, so we agree to disagree but i dont think pete does do to bad with a wife like me!! and anyway if he wonted a wife to cook, clean and stay home!! why the hell did marry me!! LOL cause im alot better at other things!! LOL
Lolly & Pete x x x
my granny used to say......( she really did )
Agree with everything your man says then do whatever you want cos it makes them think they are in charge when really you are .
Actually I think you'll find it's the men who are well and truly running the show. We like to let the girls think they're in charge but really it's us men pulling the strings!
I remenber the days when it ....... shit mindy's coming, got to go! ...... :giveup:
[quote user=morkandmindy]Actually I think you'll find it's the men who are well and truly running the show. We like to let the girls think they're in charge but really it's us men pulling the strings!
I remenber the days when it ....... shit mindy's coming, got to go! ...... :giveup:[/quote]
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:giggle: OMG i nearly fell off my chair laughing at that one Mork
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[quote user=morkandmindy]Actually I think you'll find it's the men who are well and truly running the show. We like to let the girls think they're in charge but really it's us men pulling the strings!
Also absolutely pissed myself at that one mork!!! I love men with senc of humours too. Behind every good man is a better woman.... and normally a saucy one if she is reading this xxxx
I remenber the days when it ....... shit mindy's coming, got to go! ...... :giveup:[/quote]
We are both in charge when in comes to swinging, If one of us isn't 100% happy and comfortable then whatever it is quite simply doesn't happen.
When it comes to everything else then I am (Mrs C) but ssssshhh don't tell Mr C I said so hehe.
2on2...you have just learnt one of life's valuable lessons - the role of men in a relationship. Now that you understand that you will be a much happier man. You can't fight such a long-established system.
[quote user=to_delight]2on2...you have just learnt one of life's valuable lessons - the role of men in a relationship. Now that you understand that you will be a much happier man. You can't fight such a long-established system.[/quote] im not fightin im just enjoyin my self lol
I totally agree with cey that you both have to be 100%. Though I have to admit I am the kind of person who would meet someone with Drew if he really wanted to and I was only ok about it but only ok and not 100%. Does that make sence. What it means is that I need to value my opinion more as a couple and not to just show my man how much I care. I need to have more importance to me and not always think of others before me.
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It takes two (or more!) to tango
Rosie xxx
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we are arn't we? lol - even the ones who have moved in! hehe! sexy too 
