I have been on here for a while now and have posted a few things on the forum to meet for sex and fun but not a single reply! I don't get it? That's the whole point of this site to meet other people who r into these things and looking for the same! It isn't Facebook or friends reunited where u go on there to see what ur mates r upto it's a site for people who enjoy sex to find other people who enjoy sex and meet people for sex! Simple as that!
It also seems that unless u got to the socials in places like Milton keyns then you r not in the SP click! Which is childish and like being back in school! At the end of the day we r on here for 1 thing.......... SEX! So let's not pretend we come on here to socialise! If ya wanna socialise get out the house and go out! Or go on facebook! Anyway rant over! Have a nice weekend peeps!:-)x
plenty of folks have a very active life as a result of being on here. Not getting replies to posts on here is not the best measure of business or popularity.
However the socials are an element that some enjoy and find very useful as a way of getting to know folks (the original intention and the reason they were called socials). If they are ot your bag then cool... find something that is and enjoy.
I know that when i first came on here i felt a bit of an outsider and that is to be expected- only by chatting, flirting, mailing or doing what works for you, will you find your niche.
Have fun and keep your chin up (or anything else )
hey tank your spot on honey. im 33 and have messaged blokes in their late 40s and early 50s with no reply?? ok im not naomi campbell but im attractive and not a timewaster i dont understand either your not on your own by any means,your profile is good hope you get some success.x
Hi guys,
Having looked at your profiles I notice neither of you (Tank1983 and Michele1978) have any visible photos. This can put people off contacting you or responding to your messages.
The 'help' pages of this site encourage users to add photos, quote:
"[color="blue"]Adding photos to your advert will significantly increase your chances of someone being interested in you.[/color]"
See here: The above relates mainly to creating an advert on the site but it will be just as relevant to user profiles.
So maybe that could be a reason why you're not getting much interest. The photos don't have to include your face, you can always keep those private.
Good luck!
Dave
Well if people want to see my pics then they just have to make the effort and ask! I'm not willing to put face picks on here which I don't think should be an issue, I'm happy to email face pics after getting to know sum 1!
It really is a difficult one to balance.
Like you (Tank1983) I won't put face pics on here but I'll always say to anyone that contacts me that I will email one to them if that's what they want. I obviously expect the same in return.
Because I've been messed about so many times, by couples and single women, i'm always a little wary when someone contacts me and I find their profile doesn't have much on it.
Before going any further with communication I always want to have a good read of their profile, check what they look like (i.e. view basic photos, not necessarily face pics), see if they have any feedback/comments, and have they been verified, and from that I can decide if I'm interested.
Without a photo I can't decide if someone is my 'type' and whether there is any sexual attraction.
You can ask them for a photo or access to private galleries but a lot of the time, from experience, I find they are reluctant. I then have to ask myself "why" and usually I become suspicious i.e. timewaster alert!
As I say, it's a difficult one to balance. But because of all the timewasters I think people just move on when they find no photos and very little info on a persons profile.
the likes of myself and tank are attached so any pics on public view could be hazardous. i had a pic on uniform dating and a friend of my hubbys seen it
Posting pictures on the net there is always the possibility that some one you know may recognize you. A lot of people edit their photos before posting them, obscuring identifying marks such as tattoos and also blanking out faces.
A question for those who don't want to display pictures, do you expect others to display pictures?
We have met people in the past from S.P and been to a few socials but i bdid feel out of my depth when w went to we just go to swinger clubs where we know people want times you just get time camming is also a way of deciding if you want to meet.
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