Here we go again guys. Last night i was in the chat room and i had trouble - again with single blokes - and i know a few others did, to the point that they were insulting. Can I say at this point that Swingin Cat was lovely yet again and stood up for the honour of us ladies.
Anyway personally I had one guy whisper to me' I really fancy you and want to fuck you'. This is the same bloke that I have been telling really nicely for weeks that we are not looking for single men. Then there was another guy who was whispering to everyone 'Let me show you my cock' and it ended up turning into a nasty 10 minutes on the chat room where people were having a go at each otherand the guy who had started it buggered off when the arguments guy told a couple they had cataracts in their eyes because they happened to think that a particular single bloke was charming and pleasent and a pleasure to talk to.
Myself personally, I am finding more and more reasons to report people for their behaviour on the chat rooms and I am trying not to report them because at the end of the day it shouldnt be like this. We go into chat for a bit of light hearted fun with people who we class as friends, not to be insulted or ogled at. Its like I said last night if i want to take my top off on camera then I will do it if i want to and when i want to and NOT when im told too.
One couple got it spot on by saying 'come on guys show us your big juicy cocks' (excuse the language) which they would not and then they used the excuse about not having a camera. This couple rightly proved the point that these men are looking for women to harrass but are not willing to show themselves - a lot of them havnt even got photos - Well if you expect us to perform on demand for you at least have the decency to have a camera before you start arguments with people who have been out and bought cameras to prove their genuinness.
I think we might have to start a naming and shaming forum thread soon - with the permission of Admin of course - to get people to be aware of who these people are who are making life unpleasent for us on chat.
But yet again I am going to say that to all you lovely genuine guys out there we know who you are and these comments are not directed at you. We know who the decent guys are and we also know who the trouble causers are.
On that note I will finish with - this site is not a live porn show but a place for like minded people to have a laugh and a bit of fun and maybe a meet out of it, without feeling exposed, embarrased or paranoid because of the actions of other people.
Thats all folks!!! :cry: :O :-? :-o :mad: :devil: :devil: :fury: :fury: :fury: :fury: :rainbow: eye:
To all those who witnessed the despicable, childish and insulting actions of silver2211, making a complete twat of himself in chat tonight (Thursday), I'd like you to know that the whole chat log was saved to a Word document, which ran to 7 pages, and submitted to Admin as an abuse report against him.
All this, just because his advances were rejected. Just how pathetic is that?
We can only hope........nuff said.
Post edited 28-10-2005 1:30
I dont suppose it will be no secret by now that myself and a few others were subjected to terrible abuse by Silver2211 tonight. I was called many vulger words by Silver2211 and the members who very kindly leapt to my defence were also insulted. I am pleased to say that Cop66 witnessed the whole thing and took immediate action to begin the process of removing Silver2211 from the site. Now personally I was not bothered I just thought what a stupid idiotic person and I gave as good as I got sort of thing. But one day a person like silver will say something to someone who will be so upset that they will end their own membership and judge us all by the same book.
Anyway thank you to all you lovely people who defended me against this prat and it was lovely to know that i had friends sort of thing. Special thanks to CutieCarly and Tribble who were subjected to terrible personal abuse for defending me.
I know this isn't a situation to be thanking people but i want to cuz its nice to know everyone stuck toghether in the face of an idiot trying to cause big time trouble and it goes to show that swingers are lovely, genuine people, so dont let the other trouble causing bastards grind you down guys.
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Post edited 30-10-2005 1:10
Just sorry I couldn't remove him from the chatroom. (HINT HINT admin?)
I can honestly say this was a completely unprovoked incident. Sorry it happened ! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Like all others in the room, I was completely disgusted at the treatment that, amongst others, somit and carly received from silver2211.
It should be known that he also made a death threat to another unnamed member in the process.
I can now happily say "good riddance to bad filth" in the case of silver2211, as his membership has now been ended, and would also like to extend my own personal thanks to cop66 for quickly, and calmly, sorting everything out to remove him.
Somit, Carly and Tribblemaster: you were all absolute angels through everything - I am really sorry for you that you had to put up with shit like this. It's bad enough for this to happen to anyone, but worse when it's a personal chat friend.
I hope that the whole incident serves as a warning to any other idiots wishing to try their luck - not a good idea to cross the adults, is it?
Post edited 30-10-2005 1:38
SOMIT babe Im here to stick up for you when ever, where ever! He was just rude and I couldn't just sit there and watch that! No mater what abuse I get back from some childish looser! (cumin from the 18 year old in the room) ! hehe i think somit he just picked ur name from the list, he had no reason what so ever to start!!
Thank you swingin babe for sticking up for me once he turned on me lol mwah xxx
We did all stick together and I think we kicked ass! Hehe
And thank you cop babe for booting him!!
I have to say though the abuse was a little crap, does he know a few words?? Poor lad. Obviously attention seeking! Im sure him and his right, maybe left, he might be a lefty, anyway least him and his hand will have many years together!
Bye silver will miss ya! YEA RIGHT!
Mwah luv ya all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Well Said Somit u will always have my respect a nd support in SP, we need to have n=more controls in this room to filter out the bad seeds as in more monitors and instant time ban.
This si a g8 site to be in but over last few months so many females and couples have been insulkted and abused buy unwanted , disrespectful guy and the odd couple.
Same should be said about time wasters in here as well.
Chris
It's not just in the chatroom either. Increasingly I'm getting mails from single guys with little or no profile, no pictures and with whom I've had no conversation whatsoever.... first contact from him to me "fancy a meet"
How on earth am I supposed to make a decision based on a profile that only says "want sex, need sex" without any pictures of the person who wants and needs sex??
Oh yeah, I can.... my decision is "No thanks" :moon:
And the standard reply when I point out my reasons for saying no, and the fact that I won't give out my mobile number so that he can send a pic to my phone... "Your loss fatty"
Wonder how much success this guy is going to have... My guess would be "none" :wank:
Sorry to hear about this - no one should have to endure that sort of thing, especially on a site where people should be having fun...
I'm sure there must be some things that could be done to avoid this sort of thing?
Such as, are free membership people allowed to post in the chat room? I'm sure premium members would think twice if they knew their membership would be cancelled the moment they stepped out of line for example.
Anyway sorry to hear about this, it makes me very angry both for the offence caused and because it risks tarnishing the rest of us single guys with the same brush... :fury:
:mad:Sorry to hear bout this ahssle folks. I am so glad the wife and I were not online she would have made me cancell membership on the spot. We ahve chatted to some single guys but there should surely be some kind of rule that if there are no pics and minimum profile info they cannot get full membership or enter chatroom. Otherwise the good guys are paying membership for nothing. The vast majority of folk will just up and move to another site if there is no control over this one.
Another thing that drives us nuts is the number of people who whisper mainly sngle guys as soon as you enter the chatroom. By the time I have said hello the screen is full of whispers then starts to slow down. Whispers should be for private info only ie there should be a rquest and acceptance then if you don't want folk to whisper you just don't accept. (same as set up on when folk want to cam)
It would also help if these single guys occasionally let go of their cocks and deleted the chat with chat tools occasionally this would speed the site up and stop the number of crashes that are happening.
[quote user=will71]Sorry to hear about this - no one should have to endure that sort of thing, especially on a site where people should be having fun...
I'm sure there must be some things that could be done to avoid this sort of thing?
Such as, are free membership people allowed to post in the chat room? I'm sure premium members would think twice if they knew their membership would be cancelled the moment they stepped out of line for example.
Anyway sorry to hear about this, it makes me very angry both for the offence caused and because it risks tarnishing the rest of us single guys with the same brush... :fury:[/quote]s
Hi will , no, free members are not allowed to use the chatroom or foruums (although they can view the forums-just not post), nor can they send private messages to members. There is a current system for terminating membership of the site also.
The point about pictures and something useful in profiles is a good one, but it would be very difficult to inforce. It might also be intimidating for new members, free or premium.
Take the point about removing profiles with the minimum of info etc but when we joined it took us a couple of days to mess around with ours and over a week to sort out photos! (We are much more efficient now!)
Some genuine people have very minimal profiles but get recognised as good fun in the chatroom and so get contacts.
I know it is hard but we really need to just ignore these guys while saving chat, as Cat does, and then a record can be sent to admin if no moderators are in the room.
Speaking of that....how do we know who all the moderators are?? I know of several but only incidently.
There was a famous madam who said that you couldn't get any sense out of most men until after they cum. I certainly find that when I get horny, my mind only seems to focus on 1 thing, and you know us guys are supposed to be useless at multitasking. But since joining this site I have found I can wank and type responses in the chatroom at the same time! So maybe this isn't true afterall?
Perhaps it is sexual frustration that prompts these guys to behave like assholes, and unfortunately thereby further limits their chances. It's like alchohol tho, if you're not an asshole to begin with, you won't become one under the influence.
But to be fair, some women can be assholes when they are not getting the sex they want as well. They are lucky to be able to get what they want more easily.
But to be fair, some women can be assholes when they are not getting the sex they want as well. They are lucky to be able to get what they want more easily.[/quote]
I have never come across an abusive woman in the chatroom. Been using it for a long time too.
It is irrelevant why these men abuse other members. The fact they do is enough. I have no problem with abusive users of either sex being banned.
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