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Non penatrive sex Vs penatrive sex

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Non penatrive sex Vs penatrive sex I could be in the minority here but I have had as much fun (sometimes more) without penatrive sex. I know many will rant on about big hard cocks and going for hours and being banged into next week and I can and know the appeal of that. I was once fortunate enough to have a 3 way session with two wonderfully tactile ladies and at no stage did I penetrate either of them but as a memory it stand up against the best. I know that some can only achieve satisfaction this way and a great way it is too. Now you can call me a bit of a romantic here. There is nothing nicer they exploring, nothing better than discovering all those little things, the scars, the moles and so on that set the person your with apart from any other you have ever known. My partner and I often have sex without penetration and the mobility and chance to reach and stimulate other parts is something that we both adore. Not having 10” to slap on the table and shout ‘get it here’ may go someway to explaining the need to look at other ways of giving pleasure other than the run of the mill rodeo rides. Your thoughts Justask
Yes, I can totally agree with that. Happily, most of my meets have included a nice shag (sorry - "penetrative sex" is both too long to write, and a little clinical! smile ), but I have had a couple of wonderful meets which didn't, and in both cases the sensuality was sublime. Like you, I place a lot of emphasis on intimacy, kissing, touching, caressing, oral etc. , and any sexual encounter without that just wouldn't work for me. If I had to choose beween that or a shag, I'd give up the shag every time.
[color="darkred"]Call me greedy if you like but I would rather have both!! :smug: Mindy xxxxxxxxxxx[/color]innocent
lol - me too Mindy smile I said "If ..." :smile2:
Ive had as much fun with non penatrative sex than penatrative sex. By that I mean ONLY watching each other get off, masturbating, wanking/fingering each other. I think its pretty darn sexy. And its creative, keeps the sex life interesting.
you can put us down for a double helping of both please too...
From a male perspective, I'm not too bothered about shagging (strange but true), I would rather focus on pleasing Jeanne with my tongue and fingers. Funnily enough, Jeanne says she gets more enjoyment from it too. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy banging away but it's not the be-all and end-all. Sometimes our foreplay can last for a couple of hours, especially if there is chocolate sauce and vibrators involved. Carl
ooo good question!! i would def have both cos like mindy i AM greedy :evil2: you made a good point about kissing touching etc, that it the thing i find the most horny of all its what makes it for me!! jen
Carl - I'm with you all the way there. Jen - I wish I was with you ! smile xxxx Suds