hello, we have considered joining the swinging scene for many years now and with careful consideration have decided to take the plunge, we are very happily married and are not looking to replace our partners, just enhance our sex life with the help of other loving couples, we are non-smokers and very ope-minded and would be prepared to experiment with anything we have not listed in our interests within reason, bdsm is an avenue we would like to explore further with the right person/couple .thank you for taking the time to read our ad j&j xxx