I am an intelligent, well read and polite single male with some swinging experience. I can be initially shy. I admire the female form with its soft curves and like nothing more than a slow sensuous exploration of it.

I am safe, discreet, disease free and open to learning more about the lifestyle and above all, enjoying life more.

I believe that sex is a wonderful gift and that it is too good not to share!

I am not married but have to be discreet; the last thing I want is to meet someone from my professional life so I hope you understand any potential caginess on my part.

I understand that many will have children or other considerations to think of, so hotel meets are fine.

I am looking for people to join for easy, uncomplicated fun. You should be comfortable in yourselves and happy to socialise before and after play; after all, it's not just about wham, bam, thank you m'am is it?

I have experienced MFM before and would like to continue to explore this in all its permutations as well as larger groupings. I also enjoy applying light bondage and spanking and have the relevant restraints and implements. I like toys and adore oral  both ways.

I do not like time wasters or people who only use these sites for their own solitary jollies; I do not let people down with improbable excuse after arranging a date.

No mean no stance fully understood and adhered to.

I will travel reasonable distances to meet others so if you're in Scotland there is little point in contacting me!