as a married couple of 14 years, we have had fun with a couple of my husbands friends, it was different at firts but the second one went on for many months, my husband enjoys watching me at it, but we have decided we want to couple swap.. i.e no single men. were both 38. we are both average in build, we simply want to seek friends of a similar mindset and make friends that we can openly straight swap, we have not done this before but we are hoping to find someone the same as us, we do smoke and drink, we like video games and just want someone a couple the same for sexy fun and good friendship