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sarahnmal
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sarahnmal
Casanova
Well oh what a night. To ceylon and team thank you for your hand work in sending out the mails and keeping the lists up to date. Great to meet people and have a chat and laugh. With so many we need name tags to help help me remember who is who. Thank you to those who took the trouble to come to the banana and introduce themselves! Wonderful dresses The Banana enjoyed its night out as well!! 8) I would also like to say thank you for my chocolates, I am most touched at your kindness. Sarah xxx
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sarahnmal
Casanova
[quote user=ceylon1]Hum de dum de dum All getting ourselves glammed up obviously. Maybe I should be doing the same will take hours lol :lol: :lol: It's so good to talk to yourself, very therapeutic :-? mwahxxxx see you all tomoz xxxxx[/quote] Can I have some of what ever you are on please?? :lick:
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sarahnmal
Casanova
Admin Just to let you know that pussinboots has decided to let you out of her shed. Some of us are off to Milton Keynes for the social 8) As none of you could attend this event, as you are all busy!! I hope you have a wonderful weekend. lol Don't eat, or drink too much, (as if) and make sure you come back on Monday! We will be waiting for you!! :rainbow: :rainbow:
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sarahnmal
Casanova
Boring I know [B]BUT PLEASE[/B] If anyone asks you about this pre drinks / food/ ice breaker or the evening event please [B]DO NOT[/B] give them the details. [B]PLEASE refer them to Ceylon.[/B] Thank you Post edited 01-06-2007 11:13
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sarahnmal
Casanova
Details have been sent to all those who have requested them for pre afternoon drinks / food. MO:- You echoing me over parking lol Sudsy:- It looks like you missed out there, but the day and night are still young yet!! 8) The train station is central to MK, and then walking distace to the main hotels (loads of taxis outside train station as well) the coach station (known as coachway) is NOT, and from there you will need another bus or taxi.
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sarahnmal
Casanova
I have had some of you ask me about parking. You will need to ring your hotel to check what arrangements they have. But generally every where is pay and display. The main shopping centre area is pay and display, and make sure you do pay and display the parking wardens go round in hunting packs! and are very hot off the mark and they also photo your car and windscreen. Rate are different depending on how close to the shops you park, look at the machine for details. After 6pm it is FREE And make sure you REMOVE all SAT NAV's and holders OUT of your cars.
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sarahnmal
Casanova
I have had some of you ask me about parking. You will need to ring your hotel to check what arrangements they have. But generally every where is pay and display. The main shopping centre area is pay and display, and make sure you do pay and display the parking wardens go round in hunting packs! and are very hot off the mark and they also photo your car and windscreen. Rate are different depending on how close to the shops you park, look at the machine for details. After 6pm it is FREE And make sure you REMOVE all SAT NAV's and holders OUT of your cars.
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sarahnmal
Casanova
I have had some of you ask me about parking. You will need to ring your hotel to check what arrangements they have. But generally every where is pay and display. The main shopping centre area is pay and display, and make sure you do pay and display the parking wardens go round in hunting packs! and are very hot off the mark and they also photo your car and windscreen. Rate are different depending on how close to the shops you park, look at the machine for details. After 6pm it is FREE And make sure you REMOVE all SAT NAV's and holders OUT of your cars.
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sarahnmal
Casanova
You mean the M25 car park, I have arranged for the M1 to be working lol * if you are mailing me oyur phone number you need to enter it as words, as the auto sensor rips out numbers* madeye:
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sarahnmal
Casanova
Saturday afternoon 2nd June Some of us are arriving in MK during the afternoon. 8) Who would like to meet up for a drink / food before the evening main event of the day? :lick: The pub serves various type pub foods and has a good choice of beers etc, and is within walking distance of the main hotels. Buy your own food / drinks. The venue I have in mind is [B]NOT[/B] the same venue for the evening main event. So if you are around and fancy meeting up during the afternoon rather than sat in your hotel looking at the 4 walls. A good ice breaker if you have never been to this type of event. Either post in this thread or mail me. I will send details out Friday, or if you have already left your home by then please make sure you mail me your phone number xx :beer:
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sarahnmal
Casanova
ohh we did this one for Mo back in feb time lol Stolen from another site Dogging is a predominantly British activity that involves outdoor exhibitionism in car-parks, wooded areas and the like. The term dogging originated in the early Seventies to describe men who spied on couples having sex outdoors. These men would 'dog' the couples' every move in an effort to watch them. When the swinging scene discovered that open-air sex has its own special thrill they began meeting in car-parks, and the doggers found a new and rich supply of voyeuristic fun. Moreover, the doggers soon realised that these couples were actively encouraging them to watch, even performing for them, and sometimes allowing them to join in. And a bit more Usually you have a situation where couples are in or around their cars, having fun for all the voyeurs who've turned up to see. Sometimes these voyeurs are asked to join in. Only join in or move closer if you are asked, or if you see the interior lights of the car flashing (a signal to move closer as the couple want voyeurs to watch or perhaps even join in). Before going to a dogging location make sure you:- Go prepared for safe sex Ascertain that particular spot is for you - is it mainly couples to watch or is it some gay action you're after? Most of all, make sure everyone is happy and having fun. On a legal note, please be aware that you have to be careful. This is the current situation in the UK as far as we know:- "There are laws that protect members of the public from being unwilling witnesses to sexual behaviour or from being harassed or intimidated in their use of public spaces or facilities. So sex in public toilets, parks or places where other passers-by may be offended is illegal." However, "if you are in a private place or in a location where you wouldn't expect to be spied upon, then you're probably okay. Prosecution relies on a third party onlooker getting upset and reporting you. So, if you want sex under the stars, make sure you pick a secluded spot." - Quoted from the BBC summary on sex and the law in the UK. Here's what Dr Tuppy Owens of the Sexual Freedom Coalition had to say in a letter to the home office about the intention to make public sex illegal: "Item 77 would making dogging illegal. Dogging is a popular, ancient tradition of anonymous sexual fun, with exhibitionists performing to voyeurs in car parks, woods, sand dunes, etc." and a bit more These are mainly guidelines, as rules cannot be enforced. Guidelines can be encouraged. Anyone who's been "about" for a while will know these anyway. Be aware that the good guys might read this and say ‘it’s all common sense’. Not everyone you meet Dogging either knows of this Site or cares a toss about the guidelines. So don’t come back on here and complain. These will help you enjoy the experience, but not make it too regimented. SINGLE GUYS The FIRST thing you have to understand is this: The WOMAN in the party is in command. NO means NO, STOP means STOP. If you don't UNDERSTAND this, then dogging ISN'T for YOU. The name of this game is FUN. THERE ARE MANY TIMES MORE SINGLE GUYS DOING THIS THAN COUPLES OR SINGLE WOMEN. So, don't expect a lot of action. You may be lucky, but you probably won't. Waiting is most of the game. It may seem a good idea to YOU to park at one end and then drive down when a car comes into the car park, so that your lights shine on the occupants. But others also think the same and they'll be doing it too. It isn't a good idea, it's a very BAD idea because it always ends up with four or five cars driving up-and-down all night. Don't keep your lights on when parked-up. If you're afraid of the dark, stay at home. If you're too thick to appreciate this, please stay at home. Patience IS a virtue, in fact in dogging it's about the only one. If you arrange to meet a couple, please don't bother going to a dogging site because there WILL be others there and they WILL be watching you. If you don't like that idea then go somewhere else. Don't creep-up on cars, if you think they are in for a show, let them see you first. If they aren't up for it they'll drive off. If they are and you creep-up on them you'll scare the woman (more likely the bloke though, in which case the woman will give you a kicking, masochism is optional) This is a dark car park/park we're talking about, not a lounge. I'D get scared if someone crept up behind me ! Sign Language: Flashing brake lights are for gays. Couples drive in and flash the internal lights mainly, then the headlights if they see you. Basic behaviour: If the window isn't OPEN, or they haven't ASKED for you to join in, then they don't WANT you to. Even if the window IS open ASK first, or LISTEN. If the window is open, go and chat to the GUY. *DO NOT* grab hold of the woman unless INVITED or ASKED. Please don't expect anyone to blow you if you've been sitting on your arse in a car all day and your dick is humming. Try and be a bit clean, use some baby wipes and clean the bits that matter. Even if the couple DO want to play and have rubbers with them, it's polite to have your own. If a couple ask you, or others, to move away because there are too many guys about...MOVE AWAY...DON'T moan about it just DO it. If there are others already "ON" a car and you aren't, DON'T sit there with your lights on thinking they will move off and you can get some action because the COUPLE will move off too. If all you can think about is getting a free shag and f**k everyone else, then you have got the wrong end of the stick. There is FAR more WATCHING than DOING in this game. ******************************************************* COUPLES Credits: Taken from a variety of other sites and also from discussion with doggers and couples. First part: Description and general advice. ******************************************************************************* Dogging is the broad term used to cover all the sexual outdoor activities that go on. This can be anything from putting on a show from your car, to a gangbang on a picnic table. It all depends on what you're looking for. Dogging involves exhibitionism and voyeurism and this combination goes hand in hand. The voyeurs are mainly men and the exhibitionists are mainly couples or women who love to attract attention and often invite people to join in. Dogging is predominently something us British enjoy, the open air, countryside and car parks! Apparently the Belgians, French and Italians do it but not as obsessively as us Brits! If you're thinking of going dogging for the first time, read these tips below. These tips are mainly aimed at couples trying dogging for the first time. The tips are split into three sections, before, during and after the meet. If you're a single male, all the advice I've been given for males simply says, "be polite", don't be pushy and only do things you are invited to do. All the couples said that allowing males to join depended on how clean, polite and non-pushy the males were. Before the meet talk about it - If it's your first time dogging, then you need to talk about what you're looking to get out of it. It's easy for partners to get confused about how far to go. Talk to each other, decide what you're both comfortable doing, the last thing you want is to overstep your partners boundaries. Be prepared - It's helpful if you put together a small washing bag containing condoms (if the males haven't brought any), wet wipes and deodorant. These are just a few things, which will make the meet go easier. Another thing, which is helpful, are the business cards you get out of the machines you find at service stations. A simple card with your swinging names, email address and even your mobile number will come in handy. Advertising - Dogging can be a bit hit and miss, sometimes you can spend hours at a location and see no action at all. The way round this is to advertise on the dogging forum. When you advertise, don't advertise the location you're going to or what time you're going. This will result in a mass of single men waiting for you. I've heard of this happening and the couple turned up to a group of 25 single men, way too many. All you need to include is the area you wish to meet in and the date of the meet. Then simply ask people to email or PM you about the meet. Once you have the emails and PM’s, you'll be able to choose who you want, and email/PM them the details of the actual location and time. This should stop you being swamped. During the meet - Safety - Before you arrive, make sure you move your bag / purse / wallet / anything valuable to a safe place like the glove box, it sounds silly, but would you want someone to know your full name and address? Lock all the doors from the inside, this will stop unwelcome visitors and keep you in control of what goes on. Signals - There's loads of signals that doggers use, the most common are flashing lights, and these could be interior or exterior lights. This basically means they're doggers. Leaving the internal light on basically means we want to be watched. If they wind down the window, this means they want to fondle / be fondled or more. If they want more, they tell you. Most doggers start with a show for the guys and then go further once they've picked the males that interest them. There are many more signals but most of these are really obvious, like flashing. Too many males - If you're presented with the problem of too many males, the easiest thing to do is just ask them to back off. Most will comply with no problems, some don't. If they don't and can't take the message, simply say your going because of "that pushy bastard". Often the males watching will help remove the prats, simply because they don't want their fun spoilt. If it's too much for you, just drive off. After the meet. Ending it - A simple thank you to all the males that watched or took part in the fun is all that's needed. Everyone will get the idea and say their goodbyes. Cleaning up - A lot of the dogging locations are based around picnic or other public areas. Please make sure that any condoms or used tissues are put in the bin, or taken with you. Please do not litter, leaving used condoms around is a sure way of getting the area closed at night by the local council and isn't very nice for normal users of the area. Keeping in touch - Remember those business cards, well if you find someone you'd like to meet again, you can give them your card to keep in touch if you want to. Leaving - On heading home, make sure you do not take the direct route, go for a drive around for a little while. Just make sure that nobody has followed you home. Talk - After it's done, you'll be high on the feeling; this is a good time to talk about what just happened. What you liked, what you didn't, what you want to do next time. As with all types of swinging, talking is the way to safeguard your relationship, remember that your relationship is far more important than a couple of hour's fun
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sarahnmal
Casanova
I got a pm as I pmed him!!!!!!!!!!!! biggrin I pmed him and asked if he would like to come to MK...........and he replied!! and very polite he was too. xx
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sarahnmal
Casanova
Sorry guys and girls, I've had a pm from the head man himself smile and it seems he is away, so he won't be coming. 8) Griff is busy So who does that leave from admin that are free??
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sarahnmal
Casanova
What happens Jr if you get way laid in a place en route and never make it to your final destination?? biggrin Does Mo get a refund on her tickets?? :D Can I sell popcorn, ice creams and squirty cream?? 8) 8) 8) I hope you find someone. Have fun
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sarahnmal
Casanova
It seems you can also get guinness favoured marmite of a well known site!! also butter muffins with marmite biggrin
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sarahnmal
Casanova
A lot of swinging clubs have greedy girls night!! Might be worth checking out your local clubs. Have fun x
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sarahnmal
Casanova
No not a trick question smile :) :) :) Warm toast, melted butter and marmite...bring it on!! biggrin
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sarahnmal
Casanova
smile How old is your marmite jar?? What is its use by date?? What size is it?? lol :lol: 1. About 3 weeks 2. Aug 08 3. 250g :lol: :lol: :) Do you love it or hate it??
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sarahnmal
Casanova
Hi Admin wave Just to let you know the chatroom was freezing out tonight at about there were about 43 users in there. kiss
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sarahnmal
Casanova
I told Mo in a mail the tother day, just come to MK for a couple of drinks socailly. Now we HAVE to make them come biggrin :beer:
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sarahnmal
Casanova
OMG come back, I / we have not met you yet............ But if you do go best wishes for the future and good luck xxx
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