we loved mk so wouldn't miss this social for anything, not too far for us as well xxx ged and jane
dont know how we got to here but -
rein deer
i did sugest it some time ago tally but with us all in dif parts of the uk its hard . i did even sugest a get together on site just the mods but i could not make it . may be a good idea to do it again??? what do you think??
i was only trying to see if i cn help ali. that was why i asked. i know it cant be discused out of the mod forum, but am i not mod?
For me this site is far more than 'just' a site for arranging sexxy meets.
I like the 'community' feel of the chatroom -- and the way 99.9% of the time people look out for each other.
My vote would be to reinstate both Kel and Devs.
John
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mork and mindy i am not saying that people are banned for fun but i don't think all the facts have been looked at. all i am saying is that on this occasion there has been a differnece in opinion and kelly has been made a scapegoat. last week caz phoned kelly and found her very very upset with what had happened! i think new people on the site will think bad of kelly and ian for what has been said about them without actually knowing them.
i am just asking admin to get in touch with kel and find out the whole story.
hopefully then this whole matter can be forgotten.
steve
When someone is banned from this site it is not a decision that is taken lightly.
There is [B][U]ALWAYS[/U][/B] good reason. We don't just do it for fun.
obviously i am biased but i think the thread should be kept to find out public opinion! at the end of the day i pay £30 a month for 2 memberships and should be able to have my say!
i feel and i know others agree with me that ian and kel have been treated unfairly. kelly denies any involvement in the banning of devs and has conversations on m s n saved to clear her name if need be.
caz and i are very good freinds with ian and kel and having met them several times know that the allegations made against them are completely out of character and something that they would never be part of. obviously some will disagree but personalities will always clash in a large group like we have here, especially when people are drinking at weekends. i honestly hope this episode can be resolved and the best way i can think is to reinstate both devs and kel! they quite happily ignored each other for 4 months and i'm sure they would continue to do so.
once again admin please keep this thread active so we can find out the opinions of honest paying members who should have the right to express their own feeling on the matter. after all it is the paying members who are suffering the backlash in the chatroom with all the confusion and uncertainty. hope you find the time to reply to this thread!
steve
To be honest it's more to do with being an impossible situation for the moderators.
Do we delete this thread and then deal with the waves of complaints about censorship?
Or do we let it run and be accused of being biased and having favourites?
were looking to say hello our profiles will tell you the rest but were hopeing we can actually get some real tips of couples who have been down this road hope to hear from someone,thanks,steve and rishka
It's my custard anyway and i'm taking it home with me!
Anyone fancy a custard wrestle with an amature ref?
:lick:
i agree with everything said here so instead of admin deleting this thread and dismissing all the valid comments that have been made i and i am sure plenty of others would like to hear what admin have to say about the current situation regarding ppl leaving or getting banned.i have no idea why ian,kel and devs were banned but we have met them all and we found them all to be very nice ppl to know and we would like to see them back on the site .thats all i am gunna say on this matter i just hope this thread aint locked
What about custard??
And yes, i think i'll make a great fitness instructor custard cat fight ref thankyou!
Shut up and go make some jelly!!
Fight fight fight!
Can I be ref?
lately i have noticed that some great freingds have left or have been forced to leave the site! because of this we are also thinking of leaving. we have been on the site for nearly 4 years and have seen freinds like evil-klown, kinky_minx, princess( aka ian and kelly ) and many others leave because of back stabbing in a website that i consider to be the best! unfortunately we feel like the best website might not be the one for us! while we would love to stay here to stay in touch with the freinds we speak to on a regular basis ( you know who you are ). we also think that things are gonna come to a head and we will be forced off the site like kelly and ian were! i know i have some of the mods support on this matter but i don't expect them to speak up because of the position they are in. in fact i expect this link to be deleted pretty quickly but all i want to say is that kelly and ian were treated unfairly and they were probably the most respected and liked couples on the site! i feel admin should have listened to both sides of the story before they acted and i also feel that in this case the bullies won!
hopefully admin will think again about banning ian and kel and then hopefully several members will stay on the site and keep it as the rightfull #1 swingers website!
steve