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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 76
Bisexual Female, 76
0 miles · Kent
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thanks for the mails and replies on here xxxxx
I have just called the hotel and they have 10 rooms still available. So if u have not booked yet HURRY UP. They are also more expensive now than they were originally.
I will mail folk in about a week with final details, I reckon I am quite clever ( if not modest ) to have sorted out a venue from over 100 miles away, and appartantly its good there too.
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[quote user=tall-john]A3) Would I give up swinging if I met a lovely woman outside the scene - yes - definately. It would be a matter of respect for that person. [/quote]
It's not so much what you would do if you met someone who isn't into swinging. I was curious to find out if the single members could comfortably carry on swinging (as a couple) with someone they loved?
The biggest problem with this thread is that 'most' of the replies are coming from members that we've known for ages and know to be completely genuine!
Excellent answer though Tall
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Hi all
I've just seen this thread (mostly I just go in 'Lets meet up' -- hehe).
Ok, fair question. In fact I see three questions really:
Q1) Why do I swing as a single male
Q2) What do I think of swinging couples inviting me to join them for a short while
Q3) Would I stop completely if I met a woman outside the scene who I really liked.
A1) I swing as a single person because I am 100% single and have the opportunity to explore new relationships and new experiences. I've had a number of longer term rels the last of which ended Jan06 (we seemed to be arguing about trivial stuff and it was time to stop..)
I really like the excitement of the lifestyle -- both the anticipation of a potential connection (eg the fun in the chat room -- 'Hi -- lovely pics -- where are you from' -- although those who know me know that I've never used that line ...) -- right thru to the actual meet where the excitement level during those first few moments is off the scale..
The sexxy encounters I've enjoyed have been without equal and I like to think I've made some great connections with people on the site - both single fems and couples -- and yes single males as mates..
Am I only concerned with the 'intimate physical' side of swinging - no, not at all. I can say that from everyone I've met I've learnt something about their lives - and shared some great ideas about life in general - and for me thats a very significant part of the meets.
I make the claim that I am what it says on the tin -- and I'm completely happy to be judged by my peers about whether this is true..
A2) Swinging couple are in my experience some of the most open people in the known universe. Almost without exception it is clear that they have a very strong bond. I often see my role as being the spice to an already successful relationship. I'm there as the catalyst for new ideas and the exploration of new fantasies. Works for me. There have been many times when I see the passion rising for the two of them and thats my cue to sit back for a while..
Some of the mails I've had back from lovely couples I've met tell me that I've fired them up to intense levels of love making afterwards when they're on their own. Well great.. I don't want to interrupt that -- and I respect what they've chosen. It's a privilege for me to share some time with them.
A3) Would I give up swinging if I met a lovely woman outside the scene - yes - definately. It would be a matter of respect for that person. Companionship and trust rely on openness and honesty. And I claim each of those as traits. There's no secret amongst my mates in town here about what lifestyle I've currently chosen - and no secrets when I'm on a meet. I don't do lists or numbers or name names -- discretion is my middle name -- but if there's a lovely comment on my profile from a sexxy meet then it does seem ok to make mention of it.. not the intimate details of course.. but that fact that we've met and had a lovely time and maybe also that I've been invited back..
A subsidiary question might be - would I tell a new non-swinging partner that I'd been in the lifestyle... -- in fact yes I would -- in quite a general way (perhaps kite flying 
) -- and in response to a specific question yes certainly much more of the story.
Did I understand the question right Mindy ??? xxx
John
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) -- and in response to a specific question yes certainly much more of the story.
Did I understand the question right Mindy ??? xxx
John
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