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Straight Male, 76
Bisexual Female, 76
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Carl/Jeanne,
In the first I thought it was where to get sex without paying for now,I have so many friends in here its not sex anymore,its friendship,someone to chat so i havent been to meets yet(not been well),but 1 day I will,so keep on your guard I`m ravenous.
I`m just glad I have good friends in here,think i might have gone loopy otherwise.
Thanks to you all who know xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
[quote user=puss_donkey]With all the comments on here about single guys, I thought I\\\'d ask the question \\\"What does swinging mean to you?\\\"
To us it\\\'s more than just sex. It\\\'s about
chatting and forming friendships with like-minded people. It would be nice to meet a couple and go out for a meal/drink and then decide how to spend the night.
Carl and Jeanne xxx[/quote]
thats about how we look upon it.i must say we do love the clubs too and although we still like to chat and flirt at the club the sex side of swinging sort of takes over in the club situation
shane
Yes, we play as a couple but I meet folk alone as well as would Andy if he wanted to. We are both secure enough within our relationship to know that we love each other and nothing is gonna break that. I know its not everyones choice but it works for us. In the end I love Andy and he loves me and thats what matters. I would never meet a man without him knowing who it was or where I was. Plus I always take the car for safety reasons. Hope we dont sound like a really dodgy couple now, ask those who know us , we are quite nice really.
Question for the couples...
Would you ever let your partner go to meet on his/her own? And, if so, what would be the conditions?
Jeanne and I have been chatting about this and feel that we would rather play as a couple although I\'d have no problems if she wanted to meet a female on her own but not a male.
Carl xxx
With all the comments on here about single guys, I thought I\'d ask the question \"What does swinging mean to you?\"
To us it\'s more than just sex. It\'s about chatting and forming friendships with like-minded people. It would be nice to meet a couple and go out for a meal/drink and then decide how to spend the night.
Carl and Jeanne xxx
I know you will meet up with some great people here and have some exciting experiences.little jonny walks into his parents bedroom to find dad giving his mum one, dad throws a pillow at him saying \"get outta here\". a couple of hours later dad hears lots of noise coming from jonny\'s bedroom. heup to find jonny giving his granma one and turns to his dad and say \"aint so funny when its your mother is it?
me and my partner are looking to try something new this weekend and were thinkin about a swingers club weve filled the forms online now we just have to turn up even though we have both done our fair share of shagging we havnt done it in front of each other is it the done thing just to play with each other at these gigs or is that not cool we have sexed on the cam and now we would like to do it at a club with spectators but knowing if we want we can just play
ok seds, we fooking give up. i\\\'ve google searched it, i\\\'ve phoned the nme, i have phoned mates but to no avail. i cant sleep till i find out. perhaps i should get out a little more dooooooooh lol:fuckinghell:
bloody hell lilly, what have you started hehehe
hi cey weldone in organising a spectacular event loads ppl cumin wood b good to see you all.
how do we go about booking a room.
could u plz thats us know. as we r cuming from S.E london. Sooooooooooooooooooooo ..... 
Some comments on SP V2
From John (tall-john on the site)
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Gallery pics -- opens in Females - imho setting the default at \'newest\' would be better.
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Opening a thumbnail pic from a gallery does produce the right image.. this image used to be an active link to the corresponding profile -- this was a good feature and should be re-established.
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\'My Favourites\' now multi page - and still not sorted in alphanumeric order - so can\'t search for a name using the ctrl+f page search technique. I\'d prefer a single page option -- *and* alphanum sorting.
Can the number of items per page be a profile setting (cf eBay and other sites which ask how many items you want per page).
Better to have jump to page x -- like in a multi-page forum thread
The \'last online\' feature is ace - provided its true ...
Nb typo1 in header text:
\" .. If thet are currently online ...\" should be
\" .. If they are currently online ...\"
\"This page shows all your favourites and when they was last online.\" should be
\"This page shows all your favourites and when they were last online.\"
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My Favourites Page
The line \"Enter username to add to friends list\" should perhaps more consistently be \"Enter username to add to favourites list\"
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Similarly \'My photos\' I preferred it all on one page to make it easy to see which were included.
Can the number of items per page be a profile setting (cf eBay and other sites which ask how many items you want per page).
Better to have Next and Previous buttons at the bottom of each page as well as at the top (eg comments, photo galleries, favourites...)
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Established by multiple people is good -- a nice big icon on a profile would be helpful as well as just a line of text.
It would be better to retain the ID of the member who established the profiled person first - on the main page..
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It would be better to retain the actual number of comments on a profile.
Eg a person who has 10 comments should have the number 10 on the main screen of their profile.
This quantity - along with the fact that a member has been established by someone well known on the site is an important part of making a decision in favour of making contact with that member.
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Some characters don\'t display well on Firefox -- esp non ISO characters
Eg
\"Hi, my wife and i are in our early 40?s\"
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Having a spell checking option on the \'send message to user\' box is a bad idea
The only way a chap like me can differentiate himself from the time wasting tossers who can\'t spell is to at least spell check all my messages before I send them - lol
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Being able to see at a glance which sent mail messages have been read is ace - although I\'d prefer an icon as well as bold text.
However -- there is no marker to say that a new mail has arrived -- SP V1 had a \'New Mail Message\' type text line that appeared in the right hand box.
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A reasonable bad bug : if you have pics in your profile which you have uploaded in V1 - but decided not to have in either your public or private galleries (ie just held on site) the new system throws them in to your public gallery FFS !!!!!! -- bad bug --- this means that typically the most private pics are in the public domain ...
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Chatroom - wishlist -- re-sizeable Chatters box -- eg double, triple or even quad width -- then it\'s possible to see more members and tell who is watching you --- kinda useful for spotting potential new friends
This would be a great feature for people with big screens.
In fact - I use multiple screens at high res so I could have a window that is 2560 x 1024 pixels (really!!!)
AND
Chatroom - wishlist -- Chatters box should be in alpha num order ffs.
Chatroom - wishlist -- Could have a sep box to show last 5 new entrants to room...
--
Just my 2p
Some comments on SP V2
From John (tall-john on the site)
--------------------------------
Gallery pics -- opens in Females - imho setting the default at \'newest\' would be better.
--------------------------------
Opening a thumbnail pic from a gallery does produce the right image.. this image used to be an active link to the corresponding profile -- this was a good feature and should be re-established.
--------------------------------
\'My Favourites\' now multi page - and still not sorted in alphanumeric order - so can\'t search for a name using the ctrl+f page search technique. I\'d prefer a single page option -- *and* alphanum sorting.
Can the number of items per page be a profile setting (cf eBay and other sites which ask how many items you want per page).
Better to have jump to page x -- like in a multi-page forum thread
The \'last online\' feature is ace - provided its true ...
Nb typo1 in header text:
\" .. If thet are currently online ...\" should be
\" .. If they are currently online ...\"
\"This page shows all your favourites and when they was last online.\" should be
\"This page shows all your favourites and when they were last online.\"
---------------------------
My Favourites Page
The line \"Enter username to add to friends list\" should perhaps more consistently be \"Enter username to add to favourites list\"
--------------------------------
Similarly \'My photos\' I preferred it all on one page to make it easy to see which were included.
Can the number of items per page be a profile setting (cf eBay and other sites which ask how many items you want per page).
Better to have Next and Previous buttons at the bottom of each page as well as at the top (eg comments, photo galleries, favourites...)
--------------------------------
Established by multiple people is good -- a nice big icon on a profile would be helpful as well as just a line of text.
It would be better to retain the ID of the member who established the profiled person first - on the main page..
--------------------------------
It would be better to retain the actual number of comments on a profile.
Eg a person who has 10 comments should have the number 10 on the main screen of their profile.
This quantity - along with the fact that a member has been established by someone well known on the site is an important part of making a decision in favour of making contact with that member.
--------------------------------
Some characters don\'t display well on Firefox -- esp non ISO characters
Eg
\"Hi, my wife and i are in our early 40?s\"
--------------------------------
Having a spell checking option on the \'send message to user\' box is a bad idea
The only way a chap like me can differentiate himself from the time wasting tossers who can\'t spell is to at least spell check all my messages before I send them - lol
-----
Being able to see at a glance which sent mail messages have been read is ace - although I\'d prefer an icon as well as bold text.
However -- there is no marker to say that a new mail has arrived -- SP V1 had a \'New Mail Message\' type text line that appeared in the right hand box.
--------------------------------
A reasonable bad bug : if you have pics in your profile which you have uploaded in V1 - but decided not to have in either your public or private galleries (ie just held on site) the new system throws them in to your public gallery FFS !!!!!! -- bad bug --- this means that typically the most private pics are in the public domain ...
---------------------------
Chatroom - wishlist -- re-sizeable Chatters box -- eg double, triple or even quad width -- then it\'s possible to see more members and tell who is watching you --- kinda useful for spotting potential new friends
This would be a great feature for people with big screens.
In fact - I use multiple screens at high res so I could have a window that is 2560 x 1024 pixels (really!!!)
AND
Chatroom - wishlist -- Chatters box should be in alpha num order ffs.
Chatroom - wishlist -- Could have a sep box to show last 5 new entrants to room...
--
Just my 2p Well, I\'m the ripe old age of 42 today, only another 23 years \'til I retire.
Have a couple of child-free nights and tried to arrange a meet with a couple, but had no takers. So, we\'re going out for lunch, have a few drinks and, maybe, some fun this afternoon. Then I may get totally hammered tonight as I\'m off work tomorrow too
Carl xxx
Carl xxx 