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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 76
Bisexual Female, 76
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[quote user=kcmanc]it was me (mr kc) doc who was propsitioning Miss CC... damn that sticky sexy photo..! lol[/quote]
[color="red"]:doh::fuckinghell: now how come I never saw that coming?
Ah well Mrs kc will just have to provide the incentive for me to win ...... she can be the prize :happy::rascal:[/color]
Think that has definately answered the many questions and provided very valid reasons why emails do not get answered by paid members, and free members if they don't join:thumbup:. [color="red"]TJ has definately won the prize for the longest answer 
:clap: and has made a lot of very valid points about what we should and should not be.[/color] [color="cyan"][b]If we do receive a reply, & it is only to acknowledge the fact we have sent an email, then please respect the wishes of that person :wave2:[/b][/color]
:clap: and has made a lot of very valid points about what we should and should not be.[/color] [color="cyan"][b]If we do receive a reply, & it is only to acknowledge the fact we have sent an email, then please respect the wishes of that person :wave2:[/b][/color] Accidents will happen lovely Cey babes .... when I typed that whisper and the person it was meant for dropped out of the room of course my line went into the main room ...
It was embarrassing for me -- and funny for everyone else
However -- no names were mentioned and so you *still* don't know who was involved in the meet which included blindfolds and corsets and loose knots to the bedhead
Sooooooo -- discretion maintained -- hehe
John
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However -- no names were mentioned and so you *still* don't know who was involved in the meet which included blindfolds and corsets and loose knots to the bedhead
Sooooooo -- discretion maintained -- hehe
John
xx Heyyyy TJ wandering thru ...
Single males are in the massive majority and single females are in the tiny minority. In fact I reckon the ratio is more like 20:1.
Now if you start to look at the profiles of many of the lovely single females -- they clearly state they're not after single men... This obviously increases the effective ratio of women looking for meets with a chap.
Include an appropriate age range filter and the ratio becomes astronomic
I've found that females and couples on the site are typically outgoing, interesting, curious and *very* discerning. And with good reason.
Some of the males I've seen in the chat room (and a few at the social meets) appear to have had a social skills bypass operation at some point.
So what works for single males to get to chat to and possibly meet exciting females and couples .... well good question. I don't think there is a formula..
I'm the tall chatty bloke that tells awful jokes and picks up on people's mistyped words. I'm not the youngest kid on the block and I'm not hung like a horse. I enjoy the banter an leg pulling in the chatroom and I really like chatting to people I've known for a while on here.
...
Do I like to raise a smile with whoever I'm chatting with -- always..
Do I ask to see more of a person than is already on cam -- never ..
Do I send out emails that don't get a reply -- yep of course .. I don't expect a reply from anybody ..
Do I pester people for a meet -- not ever ..
Do I wave my bits about on cam .. no .. (well only if someone else is holding them - hehe :-o)
Do I value the connection with a person or a couple above any possibility of some play with them -- absolutely ..
Will I drive any distance to meet a lovely woman -- definitely ..
On a meet is there a requirement for certain things to happen for it to be a good event -- for me, only that *they* have a good time ..
Do I like to listen as much as chatter -- yup ..
Am I 100% discrete -- 100% yes ..
Am I as mad as a box of frogs -- probably
And .. the 64,000 dollar question -- do I get meets -- well .. .. now and again it seems ..
After a meet, do I get invited back -- well .. .. more often than not it seems ..
...
Am I a lucky bleeder having a great time in a really open, interesting community -- oh yes .. 
Happy swinging
John
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Single males are in the massive majority and single females are in the tiny minority. In fact I reckon the ratio is more like 20:1.
Now if you start to look at the profiles of many of the lovely single females -- they clearly state they're not after single men... This obviously increases the effective ratio of women looking for meets with a chap.
Include an appropriate age range filter and the ratio becomes astronomic
I've found that females and couples on the site are typically outgoing, interesting, curious and *very* discerning. And with good reason.
Some of the males I've seen in the chat room (and a few at the social meets) appear to have had a social skills bypass operation at some point.
So what works for single males to get to chat to and possibly meet exciting females and couples .... well good question. I don't think there is a formula..
I'm the tall chatty bloke that tells awful jokes and picks up on people's mistyped words. I'm not the youngest kid on the block and I'm not hung like a horse. I enjoy the banter an leg pulling in the chatroom and I really like chatting to people I've known for a while on here.
...
Do I like to raise a smile with whoever I'm chatting with -- always..
Do I ask to see more of a person than is already on cam -- never ..
Do I send out emails that don't get a reply -- yep of course .. I don't expect a reply from anybody ..
Do I pester people for a meet -- not ever ..
Do I wave my bits about on cam .. no .. (well only if someone else is holding them - hehe :-o)
Do I value the connection with a person or a couple above any possibility of some play with them -- absolutely ..
Will I drive any distance to meet a lovely woman -- definitely ..
On a meet is there a requirement for certain things to happen for it to be a good event -- for me, only that *they* have a good time ..
Do I like to listen as much as chatter -- yup ..
Am I 100% discrete -- 100% yes ..
Am I as mad as a box of frogs -- probably
And .. the 64,000 dollar question -- do I get meets -- well .. .. now and again it seems ..
After a meet, do I get invited back -- well .. .. more often than not it seems ..
...
Am I a lucky bleeder having a great time in a really open, interesting community -- oh yes ..
Happy swinging
John
xx 
:-o Yes i know that happens hotfitter, and I can't understand why peeps don't at least acknowledge your invites 
. Perhaps they get so many invites from single males they just can't reply to them all, or only to those that they are interested in after checking profiles. Perhaps some of the other members can shed light on your dilemma.
. Perhaps they get so many invites from single males they just can't reply to them all, or only to those that they are interested in after checking profiles. Perhaps some of the other members can shed light on your dilemma. 