[color="darkred"][quote user=sudsy]Clearly there are 2 very different camps here, and I have no problem with the point of view of each. I do wish, though, that the "We aren't worried" camp would at least try to appreciate that not everyone shares their view, and could have very real reasons for not doing so.
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This is annoying me now. "we're not worried"! Because we've taken every precaution to protect ourselves on this site, even down to our user name. Our old name came straight back to here in a google search so we changed it, funnily enough Morkandmindy doesn't!
As for photos going public, isn't the option private or [b]PUBLIC[/b] a big enough clue??????
Think of it from a business point of view. A new potential member stumbles across this site, they can't use the forums, they can't mail anyone, they can't use the chatroom and they can't see any pictures! Who's going to join a site like that????
[b]It is not this sites responsibility to protect you from being discovered.[/b]
If you're worried, change your profiles, names, text etc And make your pictures private![/color]
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:fuckinghell:[color="cyan"]I agree with bibi on this in that I take great offence at the judgemental comments made by pasha:fury:
Why do you think professional people are only trying to make themselves important on a site like this? And what grounds have you to label them all 'fat & ugly'? I removed my pics because they were all face shots; I'm not prepared to take the risk of any of my patients, friends, or family of seeing me on SP. As Fruit has already tried to explain, along with others, it is about privacy and sensitivity; most people regarding swinging as a form of infidelity whether both partners consent or not, which, in itself, colours their view.
Perhaps all men don't have your physique, but, then again, they also won't have your intellect either and can see things from more than one angle, thus having better perception of the risks involved.
You are entitled to your opinion, but to make such crass comments about people is totally unecessary; but as you dont' care what others think about you I doubt this makes any difference:mad: [/color]
[color="cyan"]well you know me well enough to guess MY opinion on this one:smug: I think it will depend on how serious your feelings are and whether you think he could accept you have intimate relationships with others (male and/or female):undecided:. Honesty IS the best policy, but how you broach the subject, and how much you tell him, may be difficult to decide upon
You need to give this a lot of thought otherwise you may not get the reaction you expect. Hard call, and think miss cc. approached it in a good way:thumbup:[/color]
[color="yellow"]Good luck and I truly hope your relationship blossoms in the way you want it to:rose:[/color] Right - this is a meet I cannot miss -- I'm a definite now. 
Seeing the amazing set of very interesting sexxy people swayed me - and the persuasive voice of a lovely young woman.. 
I'm soooo looking forward to see the great folks I've met before -- and very much looking forward to meeting up with the delicious people I've chatted to for ages on the site. :lick::lick:
My bow-tie is already cleaned and pressed 
and ready to wear on the night. If you recognise me -- come and say hi xxx
John
xx
Seeing the amazing set of very interesting sexxy people swayed me - and the persuasive voice of a lovely young woman..
I'm soooo looking forward to see the great folks I've met before -- and very much looking forward to meeting up with the delicious people I've chatted to for ages on the site. :lick::lick:
My bow-tie is already cleaned and pressed and ready to wear on the night. If you recognise me -- come and say hi xxx
John
xx I am really glad that seds has brought this to light.....
Although i am not embarrassed by what i enjoy, i certainly wouldn't the entire British population knowing about it, its nothing to do with the job i do, its purely for the sake of my children and my family, they are somewhat prudish when it comes to sex (ha ha )
[color="red"]As for the pics being available for non members i think that so long as the face isn't in view then that's OK i don't have a problem....[/color]
i can fully understand others having to be extremely careful about being recognised due to the sensitivity of their jobs......
so many sexy people going :doggy:
its gonna be a great night definately one to remember see ya all there :wave2:
♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥well i have just looked through the said site and i have founf 4 profiles that are almost identical to mine . i know thay were and are mine . is it right to take some one elses profile?? no its not .
bibigtits 1
bibigtits
sexybbwpinny (27 !!!!!! im flatterd but hell i dont look 27 lol)
and
pinny
these are on the eswing site have a look tell me im not loosing me marbles folks.
pacha i noytice that you have the discription of professional dancer and ... the words at the top of your profile WE ARE NOW ESTABLISHED MEMBERS . now if thats not attaching self importance what is . any way this is about discretion and i am only intrested in discovering why my profile has been hijaced. admin ????? any answers???
[quote user=pacha][quote user=ceylon1][quote user=pacha]
oh, and can someone explain to me what a 'proffessional' job is? is that the opposite of an un-professional one...?:haha:[/quote]
I said PROFESSION pacha there's no comparison between what people perceive as a professional job or not is there.
I think the point that people are trying to make is that should pictures and profile be seen by work colleagues or friends and family it could become highly embarrassing for them.
Mr C[/quote]what made u think i was quoting you? i was making the point about people who dont put pics up because they have a 'professional' job...it means nothing, they are just trying to attach importance to themselves. and its normally the overweight not so good looking ones who use this excuse to get away from putting pics on their profile...
anyway, i dont care about what people think,
anyway, i dont worry about what people think, if they dont like it then tough. its probably because they arent swinging....[/quote]
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i take great offence at those comments. BANG OUT OF ORDER .i do care what people think particularly my family . what id still like to know is why and how my profile is on another site??? i have never heard of.
id like to change my room name and take my pics off the site. admin can you help pls
I must just say, until 3 years ago i had been on my own as a single female, i was this way for almost 10 years due to divorce, and MY GOD i wish i had known about this site, i would have had so much more fun, FRIENDS,and DATES which may or may not have turned in to more on the night.
My point is no matter what each person is looking for by joining this site its all about freedom and choice, and from what i have seen over the 2 years we have been here FRIENDSHIP 1st, sex i would say comes 2nd to most on here.
so for tho's out there who are after dates good luck to you, infact just what is a date? we all have different ideas on what this would be.
mwah mo x
Well I thought the idea of this site was to make new friends beit male female or couples,then if you were interested in each other,to carry it forward to a meet.
Well I`m not a single fem at the moment,(preop TS)and when I eventually go under the knife I might consider looking for a single girl/guy for more than intimate relationships.
So for now I`m just chatting,making friends & hopefully going on a few socials in the future.
So I would say just enjoy the site,make friends,chat and have a good time.
[color="darkred"]You know what, we've been members of this site for four years (ish) and not once has anyone ever pointed at us in the street and shouted [b]"SWINGERS!"[/b].
Also we find security in the fact that anyone who recognises you in here has to first admit they've been perving in a swingers site before they can accuse you of anything! lol [/color] :bs::doh:
Im afraid to say there arn't many single bi fems out there, well from what i have seen, but the gen ones do meet, i suppose they just have to be a little more careful, god if only i was single i'd be out meeting every week end :haha: ( do's that make me a tart :haha::haha:
mwah MO X OHH and im not single we are a cpl , it just cost's to change the name :grin:
hay krista, for me this is NOT a dating service. i was on as part of a cpl for a long time we met other cpls an have made some great friends along the way.
now im sgl i am currently not meeting at the moment but i plan to very soon. i will be meeting bi fems cpls an sgl males( as long as you fit my needs that is)
i have not met anyone on here ( in chat) that is after anything more than friendship which includes sex, true some people have met up an got married etc but if sgl people can find happyness from people they have met throu swinging whats the problem??
anyway enough from me
jen
mwah xxxx
