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Straight Male, 75
Bisexual Female, 75
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)[quote user=ellie_n_jay]When my husband and I joined this site, we didn't have "no single males" on our ad. After being a member for a few months we got a bit fed up with the attitude of some of the single men who apporoached us. A lot of them were only interested in trying to get me (Ellie) to meet them on my own and confessed that they would only be comfortable if Jay wasn't there. I understand why they might feel that way, but thats not we got into swinging for. We wanted to experience everything together and we knew that if we met with another couple they were more likely to be into it for the same reasons. Single girls are a in a monority here it seems and like has already been mentioned, a lot of ladies in couples are more keen to explore their Bi side than anything else.
We haven't ruled meeting a single bloke out completly though, would just prefer to look for them ourselves when we are ready.
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You see thats the problem. Moronic single guys making a bad name for the rest of us single guys. They dont understand that a couple comes with 2 people in the package and not just your favourite one.
Couples on here need to get to know single guys on an individual basis because were not all bad people with a brain of a humping dog.
[quote user=truescorpio] Wth regards to my 'attitude', it is apparent that you find a man who asserts himself to be threatening? I suppose we'd have more success if we sat quietly up a corner yes?[/quote]
[color="darkred"]Actually I find confidence and assertiveness in a man really attractive.
Arrogance on the other hand is a massive turn off.
And you view women as a set of sockets.. I rest my case.[/color]
[quote user=truescorpio] Nature blesses us with the organs required to perform penetration - and the reason penetration is pleasurable (performed correctly of course) is, obviously, because it is a natural thing to do. Therefore I stand by my original statement - men are an essential component of sex
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[color="darkred"]I completely disagree with that! But if it is true how is an [b]extra[/b] man an essential component?? [/color]
[color="darkred"]Ok Mork may not want to rant but I do!
It was meeting with single males that got us into swinging. It wasn't until later that we realised meeting with couples may be more fun (the math is easy!)
To this date we have still had more meets with single guys than we have with couples.
[b]I[/b] prefer having another female present becuase [b]I[/b] enjoy, on occasion, experimenting. And it's been brilliant everytime.
In fact I completely applaud the male halves of the couples in here. You try and sit next to someone you love, in a chatroom, while a bunch of horney blokes bombard them with sleeze?!
[quote user=truescorpio]I always thought swinging was meant to be a mutual venture, but to be honest with half the profiles I see it always appears to me like the male in the couple is just after another ego rub.[/quote]
So basically all the male halves of couples on this site are selfish gits?
I may be wrong but I don't think an ego boost is what our partners are here for!
[quote user=truescorpio]Now Im not gonna tar everyone with the same brush here, but my understanding of swinging is that it helps couples stay together [/quote]
And in our experience we have found that couples having problems who use swinging as a solution tend to get into difficulties. I think you'll find the majority of couples in this site have incredibly strong relationships. which is how they can "mutually" enjoy a lifestyle like this.
[quote user=truescorpio]but at the end of the day which ever way you choose to look at us, we are still an essential component of sex.[/quote]
We've been here long enough to know that that's not true! lol
The fact is you have just demonstrated the exact attitude that has put us off meeting single guys!
[quote user=truescorpio]I just wonder how many couples are really being honest with themselves about why they do this?[/quote]
I think you'll find it's most of us! 
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hello true,
thought i would say my bit on this,
when i was on as a cpl we did meet sgl males but on our profile we put we didnt as of all the twaty sgl males that think we would just shag anyone!!
i have met sgl males as a sgl fem and i am also starting to look into my bi side its hard for a cpl to decide who when an what they are after in a sgl male babes, we used to meet the same sgl guy as we felt at easy with him he knew our limits and what i liked an also what jim liked.
there is someone for everyone hun
hehe just read that again and thought i would add that jim wasnt bi lol nor was the sgl male we met lol
When my husband and I joined this site, we didn't have "no single males" on our ad. After being a member for a few months we got a bit fed up with the attitude of some of the single men who apporoached us. A lot of them were only interested in trying to get me (Ellie) to meet them on my own and confessed that they would only be comfortable if Jay wasn't there. I understand why they might feel that way, but thats not we got into swinging for. We wanted to experience everything together and we knew that if we met with another couple they were more likely to be into it for the same reasons. Single girls are a in a monority here it seems and like has already been mentioned, a lot of ladies in couples are more keen to explore their Bi side than anything else.
We haven't ruled meeting a single bloke out completly though, would just prefer to look for them ourselves when we are ready.
xx
