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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 75
Bisexual Female, 75
0 miles · Kent
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We haven't been on any of these kind of meets yet, and I'm not sure if we will as it's not really our kind of thing. Part of the reason is because we were worried how we would cope with any unwanted attention. I suppose it's to do with it being an unusual social situation where the normal rules don't really apply. Still, no need for bad manners I agree.
Ellie
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teecee. I'm gonna miss you guys. You are always chatty, friendly and sweet and a pair of the nicest peeps I know on here.
I'm not saying its every woman/man out there that makes life difficult for polite and respectful, genuine people but it gets wearing after a while and you DO begin to question your role in the whole swinging scene.
I'm upset that the ignorant amongst us have pushed you to this decision teecee, but I totally understand.
It makes me want to shout out from the rooftops.....
"Are you pleased with what you've done, aimless feckwits"
... but I won't, cus that would be bad manners!
Teecee......... I wish you all the best!
xxI've got a question! (and don't all groan)
Why is it that people slate single men for being too pushy and disrespectful (and yes -I've slated them) when the worst are the WOMEN?
I know I'm lucky with Jason that he's a good looking blokey but I'm sick to ruddy death of women, knowing I'm his partner, just making a bee-line for him or touching him like he's a piece of meat. To make matters worse, we've had them follow him around (parties AND clubs), making a play for him and when he leaves me to go to the loo or something or to have a look around, they hone in and make their play. They constantly ignore me (two heads obviously) and half the time don't even make eye contact.
We are obviously a couple, we have couples rules - we play TOGETHER, not seperately - but it makes no bleeding difference. They don't ask, they just assume that because he's male and they can open their legs further than 2" that he will do what they want. They hound him, follow him and think that they can have him just because I'm not superglued to his hip. The worse is in the clubs, in the jacuzzi. I can't use them so its a constant moaning from him that they keep grabbing his danglies and he's now said he's not going back in the jacuzzi's any more.
Why can't women (and some men), realise that its only POLITE to ask the partner if they mind? Why can't they just say, "he's lovely, can I play with him?" I'd ask him and if he was happy........ no problems.
The constant ignorance of some women is discolouring my view of swinging and I'm about at the end of my tether with it. We, as a couple are strong enough to survive it but why the hell should we.
Therefore, I ask......... Why do they do it? Is no one taught manners these days? and - Don't they think that if they just asked and took the effort with the partner, they might actually get what they want?
Orf my soapbox now....... just wanted views!
My mother babysits for a few couples as her grandchildren are all grown up now and she has the patience of a saint (must have to have raised me)!!
It may be worth looking to friends mother's or the more mature generation for babysitting services. You can check with the local police station that they have no record if you explain what you are doing and it may be worth advertising in your local paper and going round to see the applicants in their own homes.
Lots of older people love to look after children, especially if they have grandchildren grown up or living far away. It makes them feel like part of a family.
Or Age Concern can help under their adopt-a-grandparent scheme. You don't have to go for a blithering, 90 year old in a wheelchair, but there are lots of active people out there, in their early 60's who have little contact with their own families.
I've even told my future mother in law about it as she lives in Yorkshire and we live in Cheltenham. She has 1 grandchild and he is down here and she only gets to see him occassionally. It's the perfect set up for her!
Just a thought
We can't wait to see all you sxy ppl there.
Lolly & Pete x x x :moon:Ok sexy peeps a date has been decided please put your name down if you are interseted in joining both me and Troy and Lolly and Pete (p2l4ever) for a fun filled night of SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX and More SEX lol:doggy:
COME JOIN THE FUN :
We Look forward to meeting you all
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Seren can u do it hun plzzzzzzzzzz cause im in the middle of sorting libs on the 23rd feb and i can do 2 things at once, well not if im in a group of ppl that all need sorting out!! LOL!!
if u can sort the new thread for the 29th march at utopia and i will help u as soon as i can, anyway i love being ur little helper!! LOL!!
Lolly x x x
sonnyandcher, oh yes that would be great!! and my favourite saying is:
MORE THE MERRIER!! LOL!! :doggy:
also,
NEVER SAY NEVER!! LOL!! :lick:
and everyone is welcum, if they aint member plz can u give us there names, so we can get them in on our guest list or they can cum in on urs!!
let us know!!
Lolly & Pete x x x :rose:
